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Do I miss him? myself? or is there something wrong with me?

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Why bother with a post grad? Are they even worth it? Have your say! 26-10-2016
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    Well my OP states I've been rejected, this was about a week ago. I've gotten over it, well mostly, and I have deleted his number so I can't contact him especially after sending the last messages explaining how I liked him and wanted to get to know him (obviously feelings don't matter here and I was completely ignored)

    with my feelings being all hurt and that and they still are slightly... It made me think as to whether it's the rejection I dislike, the fact that my ego is hurt, I'm trying to fill a void inside of me? I JUST DON'T KNOW how something like a small rejection from an idiot(s) can affect me so much?

    I personally think there may be some low-self esteem issues here and I'm really trying to work on it. BUT MY BIGGEST PROBLEM is not being able to move on from PAST HURT CAUSED BY OTHERS!

    I want to so badly move on with life, I'm 80% there.

    Also I broke down in tears the other day because I was so emotional (over being rejected AGAIN and just feeling emotionally hurt and insecure about how I look)

    I just feel like I need to love myself and I'll meet the right guy one day as I do really want to share my love with someone special but I don't think I'll ever find him.

    What should I do? Thoughts?

    Appreciate the replies

    A good way to start is: what do you like about yourself?

    i totally understand what you are going through, something similar happened to me. but i found that a great way to get over it is to go out with friends and be in their company. go out do some fun stuff with them it helps take your mind of things alot. Also its nice to meet new people, i know its easier said than done but still you gotta try.

    I understand. I know exactly how you feel. But just remember this - "Be someone who makes you happy" instead of "Be with someone who makes you happy". Before you think of guys or anything else make sure that you are happy and that you are happy with yourself. You will be okay x
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