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Should I just give up

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    Hi guys,

    Me and a girl where dating for around 4 months when all of a sudden she decided to cut it off coming up to her final uni exams. We kept in contact during these and met up a few times for coffee etc etc. We had talked about possibly trying again to see what happens and we where both open to the idea. However recently she text me saying that she didnt think she felt the same about me like when we first met and that it possibly would not be a good idea to try again. She says she still cares for me and wants to continue to get to know me better etc etc and is still liking my social media posts etc etc.

    The question I have is should I give it some time (NC) and then drop her a text to see how things are or should I just forget about it. Part of me is saying that she is worth fighting for and not giving up !

    Thanks Guys!

    That sounds painful.....

    You dont really have much to fight for or you are making more out of it than what is left. Give it 3-6 months and see how you feel. If you want to then try and renew and if you dont you dont. Imo its highly unlikely to come to anything, but it is your choice.
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