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I need to stop this obsession!

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    Every time I see my crush like a boys picture I have to search for that person and compare myself to them! What is wrong with me!?

    I keep checking Instagram to see what pictures shes liked, every time I log onto facebook I check when she was last online I keep checking snapchat to see if she viewed my story! This seem so much like a stalker but I don't mean it in that way!

    I thinks its to cover the feeling that I doubt i'm going to ask her out as she will most likely say no. It just comforts me knowing what she's up to, this is so unhealthy I need to stop and get on with my own life.

    I was getting over her and she messages me and start to flirt! it just start my obsession all over again... I just want to block her on everything but I think she thinks we are really good friends, I don't think she knows how much I like her even though I've told her she is good looking!

    Either ask her out or distance yourself from her. If you ask her out at least you'll know whether or not she likes you. If you aren't going to do that, then distance yourself by checking social media less frequently, and refraining from checking her statuses, likes, etc.

    focus on other things - get a hobby and focus on that, or on your studies.
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