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I'm 23 and he's 20 - is it weird?

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Original post by claireestelle
I guess it boils down to how mature she is, i guess its slightly different when one of you isnt an adult yet i suppose.


Why do people say that though, because shes old enough to have sex so why cant she be old enough to choose who she goes out with
Original post by porn induced coma
You sound creepy. Really creepy.


How is that creepy. I really like this girl, and I find that I can have better sex with younger girls, especially if they are inexperienced
(it puts less pressure on me)
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Original post by porn induced coma
You sound creepy. Really creepy.


I agree. No 20 year old should be dating a 16 year old.



And anon, if you really think it's not 'weird', why the hell are you on anon? Oh. Because you know it's weird and creepy, lmfao. Reveal your identity if you're so proud of it.
Original post by eden3
I agree. No 20 year old should be dating a 16 year old.



And anon, if you really think it's not 'weird', why the hell are you on anon? Oh. Because you know it's weird and creepy, lmfao. Reveal your identity if you're so proud of it.


If I come of anon everyones going to call me a creep even though im not so im not coming off anon
Reply 24
Original post by Anonymous
Would you think it weird if you knew a 23 year old girl dating a 20 year old guy? It's early days but I do really like him. I am self-conscious though about the fact I'm older... and how others are going to see it if we get into a relationship. A part of me is paranoid he might want me for lad points (because of my age).
So yeah - please be honest in your replies, and not just PC because you think you should.
Thanks


Do not worry! My aunt's husband is 4 years younger than her and they are very happy together!! Soon it will be I think 16 years since they've been together! :smile:
Original post by porn induced coma
You sound creepy. Really creepy.


Probably trolling.
Original post by Anonymous
How is that creepy. I really like this girl, and I find that I can have better sex with younger girls, especially if they are inexperienced
(it puts less pressure on me)


Lol just stop, you're not making your situatation any better xD

If you guys are happy then go for it, but you just sound creepy af from what you just said
Reply 27
I would not do it myself
Reply 28
Original post by Anonymous
If I come of anon everyones going to call me a creep even though im not so im not coming off anon


Out of sheer curiosity, why would you want to be dating somebody who is probably still finishing off their GCSEs?


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Reply 29
And addressing the OP's question, no it's not weird that there is an age gap, since you are both consenting adults. And who cares what people think of it, if it matters so much to you it's probably an indicator of a relationship you don't want.


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Original post by limaed
Out of sheer curiosity, why would you want to be dating somebody who is probably still finishing off their GCSEs?


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Because we love each other?
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Reply 32
Though more of a question rather than an answer really.


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How did this discussion even become about me.... I posted my situation to reassure OP and everyone starts blaming me
Reply 34
No ones blaming you, stop overreacting.


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Original post by limaed
No ones blaming you, stop overreacting.


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Those guys are calling me creepy and weird how arent they blaming me
Original post by Anonymous
My girlfriend is 16 and im 20. So I dont think its weird at all


She hasn't even got her GCSE Maths and you would be in your 2nd/3rd year at uni.

#PRANKGONESEXUAL
Original post by Anonymous
Those guys are calling me creepy and weird how arent they blaming me


We're not blaming you. We simply find your situation which you have described very... weird.
I'm a guy and I had relationships with several women of various ages and the one case useful here is when I was 18 and she was 23
there were not problems like it being weird if anything it mainly caused envy between other guys where we worked who were closer to her age but I wasn't bragging I was just ballsy and lucky in that i ask her out and it worked
There's like a 10 year age gap with my grandparents and they're happy.. So this is fine!

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