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Guys: Are you put off by introversion?

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    I'm 18 and I feel like the biggest barrier between me and any guy that I like is that I am an extreme introvert so many times we'll start flirting but I come off as not interested because I just have a hard time expressing myself so it just ruins it. If you're a guy are you more likely to date someone easy to approach who clearly shows interest rather than an introvert? Or would that not be a problem?

    That is not True!!!!!!!!!!!!! It's okay to disagree with the thoughts or opinions expressed by other people. That doesn't give you the right to deny any sense they might make. Nor does it give you a right to accuse someone of poorly expressing their beliefs just because you don't like what they are saying. Learn to recognise good opinions when you encounter it, even if it means overcoming your pride and opening your mind beyond what is comfortable. What i can say is; Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind. As a wise woman once said "Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring." Don't compromise yourself - you're all you have!!

    Guys need it to be clear that you are interested in them
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