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    My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly three weeks. We rarely talk online as he works everyday (apart from friday). He went out last night with his friends and we stopped talking at 10.30 pm. He haven't message me all day until now, I do know that he only just finished work at 8pm. I've seen him online during his breaks. I was the last one to text on the phone...so I don't know if I should text him or wait until he text me?


    This is kinda funny, excuse me. You need to understand that there could be many variables as to why he didn't text you, Im sure work isnt the only thing in his life which results in him being busy. It's actually nothing to worry about in relationships somedays you talk less and on others for 6 hours. Dont start getting ideas in your head that he doesnt care about you etc. If you do feel you need to talk to him, by all means message him or call him, no one can tell you what you should do. Honestly life is too short to worry about these small things which will be forgotten in couple of mins ...

    Just text him. You're in a relationship, it's normal. On my breaks at work I usually check whatsapp/facebook but don't bother responding to messages etc until I'm done so I wouldn't take that personally.
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