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    Meeting this girl for a while. She told me nothing could happen because of exams but when they were over to see how things planned out. I took this as meaning that after exams we were going to be in a relationship. And it seemed that way cos we met up and kissed. However when exams ended she told me she wanted nothing serious. Didn't talk for a while. Snachatted for a few days after. Today when snapping we kinda got into why it didn't work out. She said I didn't act like myself around her and was moving too fast. Admittedly I was obsessed with her and the idea of being in a relationship and was trying to get the relationship going. However, she did string me along as she waited the whole 3 months before eventually telling me. I've asked to have a talk about it and see what the best thing to do is. Should I give it another shot? I know it'll be better Or, leave it and move on?

    I'd back off a bit, at least for now. If you really like her, try approaching her a little more softly. When she said 'see how things plan out', it sounds like she meant 'we'll see what happens'. It wasn't a 'we'll get together probably' or anything like that, so it probably looked like you were coming on a little too strong when you just misunderstood a slightly vague statement. If she kissed you that's leading you on a bit, sure. If she really doesn't want to be with you though, it's best just to drop it. It sounds a bit like she doesn't really know what she wants, so it's up to you. You'll get further if you don't push it too much though.

    give another tequila shot and see if it works or not :unsure: rather than leaving :yy:

    She doesn't respect you, as a man, probably because you're beta. Put her on ice, work on yourself, game other wenches, then come back to it :yy:
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