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What would you do if someone you loved got on drugs?

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I'd lock them in a room for a couple of weeks while they went cold turkey.
Original post by 0to100
Exactly omd lol

so...would you? :colondollar:


No because I'm not a knob. Someone I care for needs help, I try to help.
Original post by Teleport3
Hey I love drugs... ill post something dirty on here in a minute. Like porn videos.


embarrass yourself to your heart's desire
that might actually be a good thing though, to post porn in this thread
then it'll get taken down which might do me some good in the long run :yy:
cheers man :h:
Original post by 0to100
Kick em out of the house obviously...Bang them up like arrest them like ring the police on them.

Well ok so you'd help them through it, thought so. A wife was "just as gf" before though so. But ok.


I must be mental cuz I wouldn't abandon em, I'm not abandoning them now and I'm dealing with something myself and if someone abandoned me I'd probably end em. Like the rage I would have.


I can't go to my brothers house and kick him out of his own house?

Well yeah, but I wouldn't marry somebody with drug issues. If she develops drug issues later down the line and we have children together, then there's more at stake. If my girlfriend developed a dangerous drug habit, I'd probably leave her and ensure she gets the right support from her family/institutions.

if my girlfriend lost a limb(s) or got a life threatening illness, I'd stay with her of course...But drug addiction, now that's a whole different ballgame. Especially if you've been there before and understand how powerful addiction is.
Harsh but I'm just giving my honest opinion.
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Original post by 0to100
man you can't mention you struggled with drugs and then not get into detail :colonhash: lol
you could just tell me :bigsmile:


ccocaine
Original post by JamesN88
I'd lock them in a room for a couple of weeks while they went cold turkey.


hmmm not sure bout the unlawful inprisonment :lol: but yea I was thinking aggressively make em get off it
detox is a ***** though >_>



Ikr and that's really a sweet person you sound like now
Original post by 0to100
man you can't mention you struggled with drugs and then not get into detail :colonhash: lol
you could just tell me :bigsmile:


If i get carded, I'm fowarding it to you

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Original post by 0to100
embarrass yourself to your heart's desire
that might actually be a good thing though, to post porn in this thread
then it'll get taken down which might do me some good in the long run :yy:
cheers man :h:


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Original post by Zargabaath
If i get carded, I'm fowarding it to you

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Original post by 0to100
hmmm not sure bout the unlawful inprisonment :lol: but yea I was thinking aggressively make em get off it
detox is a ***** though >_>


I was gonna say lock them in a basement but it sounds a bit Fritzelish.:smile:
Original post by hezzlington
I can't go to my brothers house and kick him out of his own house?

Well yeah, but I wouldn't marry somebody with drug issues. If she develops drug issues later down the line and we have children together, then there's more at stake. If my girlfriend developed a dangerous drug habit, I'd probably leave her and ensure she gets the right support from her family/institutions.


Well obviously it doesn't apply if you don't live with them?! :colonhash: And I specified they got in drugs AFTER. And yea you're ensuring she gets help, the short term gf, so you're still not just kicking her out onto the road to die on her own. Just making sure. And I mean you can't say this like it's a no brainer. There are people who just straight turn their back on others no matter how close they were before. It's mental.
Original post by JamesN88
I was gonna say lock them in a basement but it sounds a bit Fritzelish.:smile:


:rofl: loool the room sounds better and my mind went straight to basement haha.
Reminds me of this wicked series I;m watching now called Thirteen about this girl who got abducted :eek:


Original post by JamesN88
I was gonna say lock them in a basement but it sounds a bit Fritzelish.:smile:


Original post by hezzlington
I can't go to my brothers house and kick him out of his own house?

Well yeah, but I wouldn't marry somebody with drug issues. If she develops drug issues later down the line and we have children together, then there's more at stake. If my girlfriend developed a dangerous drug habit, I'd probably leave her and ensure she gets the right support from her family/institutions.

if my girlfriend lost a limb(s) or got a life threatening illness, I'd stay with her of course...But drug addiction, now that's a whole different ballgame. Especially if you've been there before and understand how powerful addiction is.
Harsh but I'm just giving my honest opinion.
Original post by 0to100
:rofl: loool the room sounds better and my mind went straight to basement haha.
Reminds me of this wicked series I;m watching now called Thirteen about this girl who got abducted :eek:


Hey please help please ive got withdrawal symptoms
Original post by Zargabaath
If i get carded, I'm fowarding it to you

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how the **** old are you and how'd you start/kick the habit? And you coulda went to my dms to tell me lol
if they are proper addicted to some nasty ****, bun that
Original post by Zargabaath
If i get carded, I'm fowarding it to you

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That just sounds like a messy night not a struggle.:biggrin:
Original post by 0to100
how the **** old are you and how'd you start/kick the habit? And you coulda went to my dms to tell me lol


Oh yeah :lol:
I'm tired and not thinking straight lol

I'm 20. Started because i was curious and depressed af at around 15/16. Was very self destructive back then. Then was effectively on a 4 year binge until earlier this year when I just told myself enough was enough and quit. Had to cut off and minimise contact with a lot of people who're still into them.

Honestly feel so much better since though
hard to say.

that dude from glee, I totally forget his name now, he died of a heroin overdose. and I read an interview where his mom said he first ODd at like 16 years old and that's when she knew he was going to die young. and that broke my heart. honestly I have no idea how I'd deal being with someone when I knew their addiction was always going to have total control of them.

in reality I'd probably stay and keep fighting because I just wouldn't be able to cope with leaving someone at their worst. I think I'd only leave if it posed physical danger to me (if he was violent or something) or he created a toxic environment for children (drug use in front of them).

man, i'm bummed out just thinking about this.

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