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I'm in love -_-

Ive been seeing this girl a while now ( about 1 yr ) . Everyone who I see says we should make it official , but we can't . Both of us are going to different unis far far from each other and we both know this relationship won't work as much as we want it to .

Im trying to forget about her and move on , I've been going out more and socialising etc... but its not working. She feels the same but we do not talk as much as it brings the same feelings again.

I honestly don't know what to do , when I've had relationships in the past its either you like me , we together kind of thing .... I've never experienced this type of scenario before .

If anyone was or is in a similar situation , your advice would be appreciated greatly .

Thanks :smile:
You might be able to do it. People get into long distance relationships all the time and it works perfectly. How often do you think you will be able to see her?
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Original post by loveleest
You might be able to do it. People get into long distance relationships all the time and it works perfectly. How often do you think you will be able to see her?


thats exactly what i been trying to tell her , but she said its going to be really hard and she just keeps getting upset . Probably every holidays so twice lool
you don't have skype for the evenings?
Original post by Anonymous
thats exactly what i been trying to tell her , but she said its going to be really hard and she just keeps getting upset . Probably every holidays so twice lool


That really isn't enough, however I am unsure about how far away you two live from each other.
i hope its not on TSR :sigh:
so this almighty 'love' (which I think doesn0t exist) is not so powerful after all. It doesn't even make people go to the same uni
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Original post by loveleest
That really isn't enough, however I am unsure about how far away you two live from each other.


Now isn't the problem , problem will be in 2 months when we both move out . She rather break up now than in September where we both will be in new scenarios :frown:
I totally understand her point , but i dont believe this is the right way to go about this
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Original post by RoyalMarine
so this almighty 'love' (which I think doesn0t exist) is not so powerful after all. It doesn't even make people go to the same uni


the course i want to do isn't available at her uni. And the uni i have go accepted is a mussel group . I do love her , but I'm sure you would agree I would be an idiot to make this decision on my future soley on her
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Original post by shawn_o1
you don't have skype for the evenings?


face to face would be ideal , Skype is artificial
Original post by Anonymous
Now isn't the problem , problem will be in 2 months when we both move out . She rather break up now than in September where we both will be in new scenarios :frown:
I totally understand her point , but i dont believe this is the right way to go about this


If she thinks a long term relationship isn't going to work then that's up to her and there is nothing you can do about it unfortunately. It seems like you just have to accept her views. It takes 2 people for a relationship to work after all.

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