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Correlation between confidence and attraction

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    Ok, I'm a guy and I don't hold really high standards of women when it comes to looks. Because I'm 17 I'm kinda picky I suppose because I can afford to be at my age, but a girl I don't find all that attractive can instantly become someone I'm thinking about all day if we click. I have a crush on a girl, I like her for everything, both mentally and physically and I think if I'm confident when I ask her out we can click and maybe become an item but I'm always perceived to be the shy guy, so if I turn on my confidence that I know I have will it make me appear more attractive and a more viable potential partner or are you just attracted to who you're attracted to? Opinions welcome!

    Yes, confidence is a desirable trait for almost everybody. People who desire the exact opposite tend to be abusive people who like to take advantage or are simply deluded about what poor confidence entails for a relationship.

    Yes, confidence is very attractive!!! If you are perceived as shy and you know you are confident then change the way you act
    around her before you ask her out. Let her see you being confident interacting with normal daily life..... then confidently ask her out. She may or may not say yes but you are right.... confidence is sexy and if not this girl then the next one will appreciate a self assured man.
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