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    I am not exactly a traditional Muslim Indian girl. I know she doesn't want me to be a housewife and wants me to be well educated but when it comes to the way I look it's like she can't stand it! I hate makeup and have made it known to her for a number of years yet when we go places eg weddings she makes me feel like I have no not a choice and makes me feel really ugly. She buys the stuff for me like it or not. Now she is trying to force me to get my ears pierced! I don't want to! I told her and she said I am pathetic and it will happen one day! Please help. I don't know what to do!

    You are old enough to say no, if your mum don't accept it then she's not fit to be a mother
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