I've spoken to his mother on several occasions and she seems to say the same reply of he's mentally disabled and can't help it. He shouldn't be jumping an 8ft fence- especially a locked one. The police won't get involved because of his disability- it's almost as if nobody will do anything at risk of being told they are against disabled people. The neighbors at the other side told me yesterday they haven't sat out in their back yard for 8 years because when they first moved in he did the same to them, so they also did something to make his mum ban him, much like the previous lady here gave him vodka. I just can't do that though....i guess i'll just have to put up with it until his mum passes and he goes to live with a relative elsewhere.
I have told the guy he needs to stop certain things and he literally told me 'But i'm crazy so it's ok' so i think his mum has mentioned what i said earlier and is using his disability as an excuse which has really annoyed me. I think if it gets any worse, i'll just tell him i don't like him- which will upset him and he won't come round anymore- i can't give him vodka because he's on too much medication. It would have still been nice to know what he has though, his mum totally avoids telling me. It's annoying that when other family members visit them he's completely normal- the full family is a bit odd but his brother doesn't like me because he keeps saying i'm mocking his disability (when i said i don't want to be watched in the shower or come into my room and him be there, breaking all of my stuff)- am i in the wrong here?!