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Best friend jelous of my relationship :-(

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    So I have a friend, and this january met her new flatmate (they lived together in first year but drifted apart as he quit uni and she had her own stuff going on), and since april we have been seeing each other (her flatmate), and now quite happy and settled in a relationship.

    ONLY PROBLEM IS, she always complains that I spend too much time with him, how he`s a mess, needs to sort out his life etc... but then also flirts with him. My friend is known to lead on guys she doesn`t want...

    And is also distancing herself from me, and every time we spend time together she`s always messaging him saying hes a crap flatmate who doesnt do house stuff... they go out as a house 2-3 times a week and he spends 2-3 evenings with me.

    I feel so uncomfortable going to their house now, as even if I kiss him or sit with him she complains. I know she doesn`t want him but she likes the idea she could have him...

    What should I do?

    Antone else find this OP difficult to understand or is it just me?

    OP I think it could do with a rewrite. It isnt very clear imo.
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