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Terrified of sex because of my vagina

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    Honestly? There’s no such thing as a “normal” vagina. There’s normal for you, but there is no set standard for how a vagina “should” look. Any guy worth your time will not care what your vagina looks like-certainly not to the point where it would diminish his attraction to you. And if it did? Well, guess what? He wouldn’t be worth your time. You could get the surgery, but there’s no guarantee that it will make you happy or feel confident about yourself and about having sex. In fact, there’s a good chance that having the surgery will damage your nerve endings in your vagina which could make sex itself a painful or at the least, not at all pleasurable experience for you. I think everyone goes through these insecurities. Does it look normal? Is it attractive? It’s not neat and tidy and pink like they are in the porn films….so am I repulsive? All thoughts I’ve had at one point or another-it’s never prevented a man having sex with me or going down on me at all. Why? Because I’ve taken those insecurities and tossed them aside like the worthless trash they are. You can’t let your insecurities prevent you from living your life. Our perceptions of ourselves are often wildly different from other people’s perceptions of us. I think you just have to get over it. Put it to the side, and don’t let it prevent you from doing what you want to do.
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