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Does this sound too needy/clingy?

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    I made 2 friends a couple of weeks ago at a training thing for work. They are a couple. Anyway I added them both on Facebook and arranged to mess up with one of them yesterday. I enjoyed it and it was fun but I tend to be quite quiet and didn't talk as much as I would have liked to. They said it was good and they enjoyed it but I don't know if they were saying that just to be nice. Anyway I was thinking about messaging them again at the weekend to arrange another get together. I would wait longer but I'm at work the week after for 6 weeks. Should I message them or not and does it seem too needy and clingy?

    Sounds fine to me
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    (Original post by Tiger Rag)
    Sounds fine to me
    Thanks, I just don't want to sound to needy by organising another meeting so soon and since I didn't talk as much as I'd have liked last time I don't even know if they'll want to meet up again.
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    I asked one of them and they said maybe. Does this sound like it's unlikely the meeting will actually happen? They don't seem as enthusiastic as before but I do like them and want to keep them as friends and really don't want to mess this up
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