Heh, sounds like you're the one trying to get in the last word. "Debate over"? That's just juvenille and unbecoming of someone as intelligent as you.
I HAVE read over your posts, and all I see is "I don't like Americans in IR, you're an American who did IR, I don't like you." Or, how about "I don't like DC people because they are all social climbers, you're working in DC, you must be like that." My point has become secondary to all this, somehow. You try to refute my points, I make counterclaims, and then you start spouting off about how "every American in IR" feels this way. That's relating my points or my character to something that I am not advocating or discussing. In short, it's completely off-topic, but you seem to keep going there in many of the discussions on this board. At some point, making generalizations about people's personalities when you don't know them and haven't really considered their opinions is a bit silly, at the least.
I respect your opinion on this matter, but there's no need to say that I buy into a larger sentiment in IR, nor that I feel this way because I feel superior to my government friends. That couldn't be further from the truth. If you don't agree with my point, fine, use counterexamples. Don't go into the personality issues of how I feel better at night thinking this way. That's not germane.
My advice to you was well-meant, if strongly put. If you can't appreciate that, you remind me of the typical arrogance of Americans who, when in an expat situation, think they are better than everyone else. But, again, that isn't germane, fair, or accurate, as I have no basis for claiming that. Nor do you in saying I feel a certain way because of a certain predisposition. See how that works?
I can certainly appreciate not liking Washington and the jobs within it. After all, why do you think I'm applying for a Ph.D.? But, don't jump to conclusions. For example, if you hadn't, you could have asked whether I have worked anywhere else, like, say across Asia, or for the UN, places and bodies which are demonstrably NOT DC. And weirdly enough, those places are even more hung up on reputation (especially the UN, which was not the most pleasant experience). But your "reality" - well, I've established the connections, conversations, and context for why I feel the way I do. You've resorted to generalizations and false assumptions.
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And the best piece of advice I can give you, Americanguy, is simply to look at this process of writing a statement of purpose as an opportunity to clarify why you want to get this degree. You're certainly starting early enough for that, and that's excellent. If I can get a bit philosophical here, from the school's perspective, this process is only okay in getting a sense of the person who is applying. But from your angle, it's a great way to really delve into why you want to study what you want. The very act of clarifying your statement, of tightening up your rationale and purpose, is a really great way to learn more about yourself and what you want to do. So, I would say, just take it slowly, if you can, and revisit the piece several times. Also, and most importantly, talk with your friends, especially those who are in similar situations, about their motivations.