why does bf look up girls on instagram?

what is wrong with him looking at attractive girls on the internet though? why is it such an issue?

It's weird that he's looking up girls in the area. Everyone jacks off to Lisa ann marie and ****.

OP hasn't said if he's messaging or not.

You sound like a guy doing a liberal arts degree. If you'd be happy with your gf doing this with other guys, you're a cuck.

How do you know what his search history is, who he's messaging, etc?

Why does he look up girls that live in his city, unless he knows them

Look up monkey branching

Sounds like he will cheat on u. No its not normal from a decent guy. Looking maybe. Adding girls on social media bad

because on instagram his recent searches are there, and his text messages and Facebook messages don't include anything from girls.

1. No, it really isn't at all. I genuinely don't know anyone who DOESN'T do it. Do you own instagram?

2. That'd be the first thing OP mentioned if it were happening. I don't see why information like that would be randomly left out. If he was messaging then the thread would be titled "Why is my bf messaging people on instagram". Use your head mate. And OP has said earlier that he isn't messaging.

3. As for your third line, you're clearly baiting. Looks like I was right after all.

But to anyone else reading, I can understand why you'd be weirded out by it. All I was saying is it doesn't mean your partner is cheating. It's probably one of the least helpful indicators infact. Sometimes I get extremely bored and search for people I know. Or I browse the rest of their profile if they post a picture. Doesn't mean I want to bone everything.

Personally, I'd be more concerned if he was only searching for a single girl over and over again. That's more suspicious. If it's just loads of people in your area then I wouldn't care.

That's absolute nonsense, someone who's in a relationship can't make a friend of the opposite sex?


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You sound insecure and immature. You obviously have a lot of growing up to do and this relationship isn't helping you to mature at all.
If you're already suspicious enough to be looking at his search history, etc. the relationship is as good as over.

what is wrong with him looking at attractive girls on the internet though? why is it such an issue?

not committed to you that's the problem. See if he did that with your pics fine(bit weird tho since he could just see u).
But other people? No commitment, not trustworthy, probably looking to dump you for someone else, all implications though since it could be false

sure, i can be insecure. but i am not immature. i've stated before why i was on his instagram, i said don't snoop and it's not like i look through his phone like a jealous girlfriend. do you think his behaviour is normal then? thats what i wanted to be answered originally, i didn't want to get insulted haha.

Yeah I don't think it's unusual to look at girls and stuff.. we all have celebrity crushes and that's totally fine in a relationship.

But to be looking up girls in his area that he potentially already knows... sounds like he's exploring his options while keeping you on the back burner.

That's absolute nonsense, someone who's in a relationship can't make a friend of the opposite sex?


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thankyou for the advice. he doesn't search for a single girl over and over again but there was one girl in his recent searches i have seen before but she posts the most provocative pictures of all. so you really don;t think i need to be worried? i just thought he was looking because guys obviously like sexy girls. everyone's responses are making me worried because you all seem to think its a bigger deal than it seems to me.

Yeah I don't think it's unusual to look at girls and stuff.. we all have celebrity crushes and that's totally fine in a relationship.

But to be looking up girls in his area that he potentially already knows... sounds like he's exploring his options while keeping you on the back burner.

these girls already have boyfriends most of them, and i don't mean to be rude but the girls are way out of his league. i don't think he's even spoken to some of them before or is even friends with them. if he was keeping me in the 'back burner' surely he wouldn't make the effort to come and see me and spend money to see me and buy me things, and he wouldn't keep a girl who lives 2 hours away and is much more effort as his gf if he didn't actually value the relationship. i don't get why everyone is making this such a huge deal, like would you not look at hot guys or girls that you know?

I'm pretty sure he's trolling. Don't bother. Now he's gone off saying watching porn while married means you probably cheating too



If it's not a single girl then it's fine. Although someone else made a good point. Why were you initially paranoid and checking his Instagram? Maybe he was doing something before that which made you insecure? I don't know much about your relationship with him before the ordeal so I was just wondering.

Anyway, looking purely at the browsing Instagram thing in a vacuum, it's such an insignificant thing to concern yourself about. Seriously just go on Instagram to the tab where you can see the activity of the people you follow to see how common it is. I'm sure quite a few of the girls/guys will be in relationships. You don't think every one of them is cheating too do you? I wouldn't even care about the girl with provocative pictures. It's not like he's talking to her.

I'm pretty sure he's trolling. Don't bother. Now he's gone off saying watching porn while married means you probably cheating too

Thing is while even married people jack off to porn and ****, alarm bells should be going off if your partner's doing it with actual people they know. Because theres a chance of cheating.