Hey there! Sign in to join this conversationNew here? Join for free

Having trouble getting over her.

Announcements Posted on
Four hours left to win £100 of Amazon vouchers!! Don't miss out! Take our short survey to enter 24-10-2016
    • Thread Starter

    So things didn't work out between this girl and me. I got too invested which kind of scared her off a bit but she also manipulated me telling me things so that I wouldn't leave her and made me miserable. Up until a few days ago I was fine but she went to Santa ponsa today and the thought of her being with other guys potentially irritates me and upsets me as it wasn't that long since we decided to leave things. Just need some reassurance to make me feel better or something

    I feel ya bro, I am in the same situation, I had a thing with this girl from near to the end of my final school year while doing A Levels.. it wasn't official really but were great until a few days ago when I went away for a few days, when I got back she was a bit distant and took ages to reply to messages until she finally did just let me down and said that she was focusing on going to uni more than anything and to stop here, I was okay but it kinda broke me a bit later on. So far I've been trying my best to forget about it in every way even though I associate her with everything at the moment, what I've been doing is just doing what I like best, music being my medicine, company of good friends and just a time to chill and make yourself laugh and smile. I'm kinda in a lot of pain at the moment because I have A Level results coming up too and it was not a good time to let me loose solo but with time, the more you do around other people will just make you feel better about yourself.
    Hope this helps and all the best!

    She's not worth it, I'm sure you're a amazing beautiful person who deserves someone better than her.
Write a reply…


Submit reply


Thanks for posting! You just need to create an account in order to submit the post
  1. this can't be left blank
    that username has been taken, please choose another Forgotten your password?
  2. this can't be left blank
    this email is already registered. Forgotten your password?
  3. this can't be left blank

    6 characters or longer with both numbers and letters is safer

  4. this can't be left empty
    your full birthday is required
  1. Oops, you need to agree to our Ts&Cs to register
  2. Slide to join now Processing…

Updated: July 30, 2016
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

What do wear to bed?

The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.