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I want to learn to chat up girls, where can I get experience?

I have never chat up a girl before, would a good place to start be from Tinder or is that something for more experienced people? I am 22 btw

I don't go to uni anymore so it's harder to meet girls
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Bars, clubs, tinder, dance classes, yoga. If you're in London you can try cafés and such too during the day
Attend a speed dating event or something?
Ask your local roadman for work experience, you'll get a HND in chirpsing out of it.
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Original post by Anonymous
I have never chat up a girl before, would a good place to start be from Tinder or is that something for more experienced people? I am 22 btw

I don't go to uni anymore so it's harder to meet girls


simple rules are go to bars/ clubs
and
be remembered for something so I would advise a flashy piece of clothing or a really vibrant drink
and as long as you are ok with women it will work every time
from the guy would has left the dating game for business but craves getting back in a lot of the time
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Original post by Anonymous
I have never chat up a girl before, would a good place to start be from Tinder or is that something for more experienced people? I am 22 btw

I don't go to uni anymore so it's harder to meet girls


http://www.examsolutions.net/ :yep:
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Scott.
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Nursery
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Perhaps get a job in a bar for a few months?

My second ever job was working evenings in the newsagent by myself in the Kensington Hilton in Holland Park.

I was quite shy at that age but I learned to chat with everyone from famous people to air stewardesses to the really fit mainly German girls who worked at reception.

It certainly was a great help. But the other thing that helped was finding a loud music bar in London that was not only a pick up place (which I didn't know at the time!) but usually so packed that you simply had to talk to women as you'd at the very least have to apologise for seemingly pressing up against them at the bar when it was 6 deep (I'd be trying hard not too you understand.)
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You need to practice, practice, practice my friend.

Go to speed dating events, work or volunteer and talk to the female customers. Join a club out of interest and talk to the women there, approach women and just have a random conversation without the need to get anything.

Just to talk to women, any women, you just getting practice on having conversations.

Read a good book regarding conversation skills, I'm sure you can find a good one off Amazon online or your local water stones.

Good luck!
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http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/ :yep:

OP, TSR's relationship forum is filled with girls who've broken up with their bfs :h:
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Original post by jamesthehustler
simple rules are go to bars/ clubs
and
be remembered for something so I would advise a flashy piece of clothing or a really vibrant drink
and as long as you are ok with women it will work every time
from the guy would has left the dating game for business but craves getting back in a lot of the time


I'm ready to slay


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Perhaps get a job in a bar for a few months?

My second ever job was working evenings in the newsagent by myself in the Kensington Hilton in Holland Park.

I was quite shy at that age but I learned to chat with everyone from famous people to air stewardesses to the really fit mainly German girls who worked at reception.

It certainly was a great help. But the other thing that helped was finding a loud music bar in London that was not only a pick up place (which I didn't know at the time!) but usually so packed that you simply had to talk to women as you'd at the very least have to apologise for seemingly pressing up against them at the bar when it was 6 deep (I'd be trying hard not too you understand.)


I've been there :cry2:

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Original post by Zargabaath
http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/ :yep:

OP, TSR's relationship forum is filled with girls who've broken up with their bfs :h:


:rofl:
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pussio fam and what
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Original post by ColossalAtom
Attend a speed dating event or something?

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manz will chef you pussio what
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pussio fam and what

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