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Am I the rebound?

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    Ok so I met a boy a few weeks ago and I've not liked someone like him in ages, he's so nice to mee and whenever we've been out or together he treats me like a angel and I love it. But the thing is he's just gotten out of a 18 month relationship with a girl who manipulated him. This girl pretended to be pregnant to keep him in the relationship and she got him locked in a jail cell for being abusive when this girl injured herself and blamed it on him and his family had photos to prove it wasn't him. This relationship ended 3 months ago and he's told me he's moved on but if that was me I couldn't trust anyone again that's why I'm questioning am I the rebound? He's a absolute gentlemen and he's told me he wouldn't do anything that I'm not comfortable with and he wants me to set the pace because he could see it in me that I'm scared. He suffers with aspergers but it's so hard to even tell, I wouldn't have known if he didn't say. I've gotten to know him so well and I've told him things I never tell anyone which is hard for me because I've not had a relationship for 5 years and I'm a person that keeps myself to myself but he's so easy to talk to and he's honestly wonderful but there's just part of me that's thinking I'm the rebound or a distraction.

    No suggestion of you being the rebound, far from it - given his experience/developmental disorder I'd say you're blessed! :borat:
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