Funny how not one single person has addressed the elephant in the room. Please correct me if i'm wrong.
She's asked for advice and i'm going to give it. She can ignore this message if she so pleases.
Too many nicey nicey comments that are unhelpful to her because they are misleading her and detracting from the truth.
The truth being that if OP lost a few pounds she would be in serious serious demand from guys.
Yeh I said it. If she wants honest opinions that will actually guide her in the right direction that's what I think. My intentions are good.
To clarify, i'm not saying OP is really overweight, far from it. She's an attractive girl, but the single most helpful thing she could do to help herself in her quest to find a high quality man is lose a few pounds (not loads, just a few)
Now you may not wish to lose weight, are happy with your physique as it stands and do not wish to change yourself in order to meet a man. If that is the case then cool. Respect. But don't expect yourself to have lots of options with high value, attractive males.
As men, we are very visual, superficial creatures when assessing potential mates. I'm sorry if this basic truth makes people angry but it's part of our basic emotional circuitry. Not our choice.
For the most part, your looks is what gets our attention, personality and character keeps us around.
Wish you all the best OP. You seem like a genuinely nice girl who deserves a decent guy.