Me and my GF have been in an official relationship now for 5 months, we spoke prior roughly for 5 months as well.
I'm 19, she's 17.
Basically I haven't had the best experience, i moved house roughly 3 years ago to a completely different country and haven't had much luck with friends so at the moment, i seriously have no friends, like at all. However i do have a GF who lives directly opposite my house, so a 10 second walk.
The relationship is going great (Some parts anyway), but recently over the past 2 months, it feels like i'm the only one actually trying with things, i'm the one planning everything, deciding what to do, making sure we have food/drink all the time, making sure we got money to do things, and just in general it feels like i'm the only one actually trying, like she barely goes for kisses and hugs anymore as much as she did and a lot of the time she is barely making proper conversation about stuff, and if i mention about my problems at all, she doesn't really help with them, she always says "she doesn't know what to say"
If i ever bring up that i don't like her talking to her ex, she always says that she doesn't agree as they're only friends and that she doesn't like to have "bad friendships" with people but she doesn't really care how i feel about it.
I don't know if i should just tell her out straight that i want her to stop otherwise i'm going, or i don't know how to play it out.
It is really getting to me a lot now, like i want this relationship, it's just i am so confused as this is my first "proper" relationship
How do i go about dealing with her like this?
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