I hate my vagina to the point that it stops me from having relationships.

As a bloke, I love big vulva. Your body shape is not determined by plastic surgeons but by..... your body. Please learn to accept them. Not all men are *******s and enjoy the female form no matter how they are perceived❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Reply 24

Hopefulandhappy

Love them girl!
I’m in the same boat, as soon as puberty hit boom! Large lips which are sort of mauve in colour and wrinkled, but they turn pink and swell when I’m aroused!
I dislike how they look sometimes, of course I do, it’s only human to feel self hatred and be affected by the media. Of course I’m concerned they will balloon with pregnancy too, but that happens to EVERY pregnant woman. My mum said that some men even find that attractive. However, they are super sensitive and quite fun actually, and believe me considering the number of threads on this, millions of women have larger labia. In some cultures stretching of labia was practice to make them longer and ‘prettier’- ouch! In other cultures they are cut off or sewn together so the women cannot feel pleasure, and for men to have pleasure only- also OUCH! In the USA men are mutilated at birth to fit the ‘uncut’ standard. All of these are abhorrent in my opinion, natural is best. When I was in my first sexual situation, the guy I was with said “wow everyone is so different!” when he was ‘down there’, and he wasn’t unhappy if you know what I’m sayin. That was a big step for me as I was so self conscious about them.
But all labia are cute as hell, and I say that as a lover of the pussy myself.

Reply 25

Osamabinlorry

5

I'm sorry if this sounds coarse and I don't mean to offend but you're fine and anyways most men love the feeling of lips dragging along their, err, you know! Whichever end the lips are. Take care x

Reply 26

username4175908

Its costing me a fortune to have a sex change from m/f and you say you don't like your vagina

Reply 27

kingnoah.

Original post by Anonymous

I have really big labia minora - REALLY big - they both dangle down far beyond the labia majora and are very dark and wrinkly, with folds. I also have a very large clitoral hood. Everything is on show pretty much. The one time I let a guy see them, he never spoke to me again - could be for other reasons, but it definitely knocked my confidence.I constantly hear guys joking about vaginas, calling ones like mine "kebab fanny", "hanging ham" etc and it makes me feel hideous. This isn't the first time I've reached out for advice online, and every single time I get the response "if he doesn't like your vagina then he's not worth your time" etc but literally NO ONE is going to like the state of my vagina, I am 100% sure.I detest it myself and I can hardly expect others to think otherwise, or I would be deluded. My vagina is similar to those on the large labia project tumblr page, perhaps worse than some of them.I know it's trash TV but considering it has "real" people rather than porn stars and designer vaginas, I thought I'd take a look at Channel 4's Naked Attraction. Literally ALL of these women have nice, neat normal vaginas in comparison to my mess down below.I'm 22 years old and I'm still a virgin for that exact reason - I've had plenty opportunity for sex but I've been so terrified of letting people see my vagina that I've broken things off as soon as they got intimate. It's literally got to the point where any time I have the chance to date someone new I just say no straight away because I can't bear the moment they'll have to look at me down there.I definitely want a labiaplasty, but paying ~£3,000 as a student seems impossible and I'm not graduating until 2020 due to the length of my course. Is there any point in seeing my GP about it for potentially getting NHS treatment? I haven't told anyone in real life about this, ever, and I'm even too embarrassed to see my GP because I don't want them to think of me as an annoying, vain time-waster.

i love this types of vagina. lets talk

Reply 28

Eredin

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I would gladly eat them off for you tbh.

Reply 29

Antonia1999

I'm the same. My lips hang down about 3 cm. I used to hate it but now I don't mind it at all. After a few relationships I have learnt to love my body. My current man loves it.
If guys hate your large labia so what? How many guys are uncut?
Be happy with who you are and how you look.

Reply 30

Antonia1999

I should add too not only do I have a large labia my clit increases in size when I get aroused. I thought nothing of it, thinking it was nornal until a partner said something to me.
I have learnt to love my body as should you. Everyone is different and I think any guy would be shallow to turn you down because of your large labia. Most guys I know would like it!

(edited 5 years ago)

Reply 31

C32alex1

I’m in the exact same situation but putting off going to my GP for years now did you ever get anywhere :frown:

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Reply 32

Original post by Anonymous

I have really big labia minora - REALLY big - they both dangle down far beyond the labia majora and are very dark and wrinkly, with folds. I also have a very large clitoral hood. Everything is on show pretty much. The one time I let a guy see them, he never spoke to me again - could be for other reasons, but it definitely knocked my confidence.I constantly hear guys joking about vaginas, calling ones like mine "kebab fanny", "hanging ham" etc and it makes me feel hideous. This isn't the first time I've reached out for advice online, and every single time I get the response "if he doesn't like your vagina then he's not worth your time" etc but literally NO ONE is going to like the state of my vagina, I am 100% sure.I detest it myself and I can hardly expect others to think otherwise, or I would be deluded. My vagina is similar to those on the large labia project tumblr page, perhaps worse than some of them.I know it's trash TV but considering it has "real" people rather than porn stars and designer vaginas, I thought I'd take a look at Channel 4's Naked Attraction. Literally ALL of these women have nice, neat normal vaginas in comparison to my mess down below.I'm 22 years old and I'm still a virgin for that exact reason - I've had plenty opportunity for sex but I've been so terrified of letting people see my vagina that I've broken things off as soon as they got intimate. It's literally got to the point where any time I have the chance to date someone new I just say no straight away because I can't bear the moment they'll have to look at me down there.I definitely want a labiaplasty, but paying ~£3,000 as a student seems impossible and I'm not graduating until 2020 due to the length of my course. Is there any point in seeing my GP about it for potentially getting NHS treatment? I haven't told anyone in real life about this, ever, and I'm even too embarrassed to see my GP because I don't want them to think of me as an annoying, vain time-waster.

There are men out there that go crazy for huge labia, including myself!!! its actually a million times more attractive that small labia in my opinion. Please embrace that labia you have because there are men out there looking specifically to enjoy them!

Reply 33

Newcastlebigcok

Hi me it id love a fanny like that.Newcastlebigcok kik

Reply 34

Enigma111!

I know exactly what you’re saying. I was once wearing a bikini, laying on the beach and a couple of guys walked passed and made a suggestion I had a mans genitalia 😢. I struggle to find things that can hold all off my labia in. When I go to the toilet I physically have to pull them apart so I don’t wee everywhere. If I go without underwear, they hand so low they stick to my inside legs- it’s gross. As far as sex is concern, I’ve given up. All that fumbling and misjudging it’s just far too embarrassing! I wish I could afford a reduction at least and feel like a woman 😢

Reply 35

BBlips

I don't know what it looks like dear butt Some people aren't attracted to it some are you to find that 1 you think it's that grotesque Others think it's that sexy I don't know what It looks like but Can't be that bad Some people find that amazingly beautiful

Reply 36

Original post by Anonymous

I have really big labia minora - REALLY big - they both dangle down far beyond the labia majora and are very dark and wrinkly, with folds. I also have a very large clitoral hood. Everything is on show pretty much. The one time I let a guy see them, he never spoke to me again - could be for other reasons, but it definitely knocked my confidence.I constantly hear guys joking about vaginas, calling ones like mine "kebab fanny", "hanging ham" etc and it makes me feel hideous. This isn't the first time I've reached out for advice online, and every single time I get the response "if he doesn't like your vagina then he's not worth your time" etc but literally NO ONE is going to like the state of my vagina, I am 100% sure.I detest it myself and I can hardly expect others to think otherwise, or I would be deluded. My vagina is similar to those on the large labia project tumblr page, perhaps worse than some of them.I know it's trash TV but considering it has "real" people rather than porn stars and designer vaginas, I thought I'd take a look at Channel 4's Naked Attraction. Literally ALL of these women have nice, neat normal vaginas in comparison to my mess down below.I'm 22 years old and I'm still a virgin for that exact reason - I've had plenty opportunity for sex but I've been so terrified of letting people see my vagina that I've broken things off as soon as they got intimate. It's literally got to the point where any time I have the chance to date someone new I just say no straight away because I can't bear the moment they'll have to look at me down there.I definitely want a labiaplasty, but paying ~£3,000 as a student seems impossible and I'm not graduating until 2020 due to the length of my course. Is there any point in seeing my GP about it for potentially getting NHS treatment? I haven't told anyone in real life about this, ever, and I'm even too embarrassed to see my GP because I don't want them to think of me as an annoying, vain time-waster.

Seriously as a male that absolutely love big labia ( as big as possible). There are many more like me. Honestly small labia is a turn off to me. Society has made woman think it’s a bad thing but it’s the most sexy thing I could ever see when I find intimacy. Own it and love it please because big labia is insanely sexy!

Reply 37

Original post by Enigma111!

I know exactly what you’re saying. I was once wearing a bikini, laying on the beach and a couple of guys walked passed and made a suggestion I had a mans genitalia 😢. I struggle to find things that can hold all off my labia in. When I go to the toilet I physically have to pull them apart so I don’t wee everywhere. If I go without underwear, they hand so low they stick to my inside legs- it’s gross. As far as sex is concern, I’ve given up. All that fumbling and misjudging it’s just far too embarrassing! I wish I could afford a reduction at least and feel like a woman 😢

It is so heartbreaking to hear how you are embarrassed of your amazing big labia! I am a male and I absolutely love the biggest labia I can find. Small labia is actually a turn off. We all have our preferences. But i find a woman that I like and find out she has huge labia I am soooo happy and excited! Please learn to love and cherish what you have! :wink:

Reply 38

Original post by C32alex1

I’m in the exact same situation but putting off going to my GP for years now did you ever get anywhere :frown:

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Please please please keep your amazing big labia! I am a male that finds big labia to be a pot of gold!

Reply 39