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    Boyfriend wants a break, but I don't want to. I haven't been on one for almost a month and it's scary. But the reason is so we can focus on the relationship and leave the romantic side after. As well as , dealing with personal issue. And to him he said that the combination of that and the relationship will be overwhelming.

    But, I don't want it and he does :/
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    (Original post by Pinkberry_y)
    You can't keep continuing the relationship, if he wants this time out, as ultimately it will make him unhappier in the relationship and he might end things permenantly
    I know but either way, one person is going to be unhappy with whatever way it goes.

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I know but either way, one person is going to be unhappy with whatever way it goes.
    Would your rather be in a relationship with someone who's heart isn't 100% in it, meaning the break up in the end would be more painful. Or have some time out/ end things permenantly now and have a clean break, whereby you can find another guy who does 100% want to be with you

    Your boyfriend probably wants to shag someone else but doesn't have the backbone to break up with you and hopes you're still there once he's done.
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