The girl I have a crush on

What do you have in common, if you know? You can try that as a starter.

Just be a bit careful as well, she could just be establishing a business relationship instead of an actual one.

I didn't really know where else to turn, so I went to random strangers on the Internet.

I've been talking to the girl that I like quite a bit. I actually asked her for a drink after work but she works late" I'm visiting her facility (we work for the same company) just in different location in a month or two. She said she would give me the grand tour of the facility and we could go for tea.

The conversation has sort of died a little bit and I can't really think of a way to get it going again?

Any advice?


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Maybe take it easy for now and let there be a lull in the communication for a bit but as your visit gets closer strike up the conversation again. When you are about a week out contact her again and remind her of your visit and ask if that grand tour will still be happening and if she says yes then tell her you'd like to also go for tea or coffee and see how she responds. If she's interested she'll go for tea or be very, very apologetic for why she can't and try to reschedule for another time. Since she is someone who you've known for a bit, and have flirted with, then at tea just go ahead and properly ask her out. If she 'works late', is 'busy' etc. then take the hint and leave it as a professional relationship but, hopefully, she'll say yes! Good Luck!

Go for tea? Cute. Is she introverted? If not, you're deep in the friendzone, but hey ho. Share most recent convo for suggestions

Friendly, if quite friendzoney, but early days..

This is would be an opportunity for you to probe a little, and subtly/not so subtly communicate interest

Compliment her maybe? ☺️

Id thought that I'd give you all a update.

I did ask her out. She is seeing someone however. I think I missed the opportune moment by along time but I've learnt from that so there is a silver lining.


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That sucks when did she start seeing him? When you both were flirting you should have asked her out for drinks instead of waiting 3 months.

That sucks when did she start seeing him? When you both were flirting you should have asked her out for drinks instead of waiting 3 months.

So it went down like this:

She was with a colleague who left, there were other managers about so I asked to talk to her, asked her out for dinner. She said but don't you live really far away. I replied yes, but I'm moving back up north soon. She said 'as friends' I replied no, and she said she is seeing someone. I said, ah no problem, he's a lucky guy and I'll see you soon. She said yeah, see you soon and I think she said "hmm, that's funny" as we went our separate directions.

But lesson learnt.


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