Red flags for a relationship?

Doesn't like children
Constantly complaining
History of serial monogamy (much worse than promiscuity which is whatever)
Issues warnings like don't hit on me (some crazy girl did this to me once and then tried in on, needless to say i blew her off to set an example that I am the mutha****ing boss)

Reply 21

username1726117

14

Controlling
Manipulative
Compulsive lying
Obsessive
Constant complaining
Disloyal
Racist
Sexist
Feminist (in the sense of "one-upmanship" like most these days, as opposed to equal rights)
Infidelity
Flirting with others
Judging others

I think that's a good rule of thumb for anyone's relationship.

Reply 22

Em395

17

Rude to your friends and accuse you of defending them and not him

Asks you for money

Isolates you from friends and family

Clingy one second and then you feel like you're with another person#

Feeling insecure around him

Calls you names and then says he is joking

Lulls you into feeling like you cannot trust yourself - if you are questioning yourself run from the relationship

Traditional gender views - in women doing the cleaning but then a switch because you are completely dependent on him for a shelter

Reply 23

Foxehh

21

Original post by Em395

Rude to your friends and accuse you of defending them and not him

Asks you for money

Isolates you from friends and family

Clingy one second and then you feel like you're with another person#

Feeling insecure around him

Calls you names and then says he is joking

Lulls you into feeling like you cannot trust yourself - if you are questioning yourself run from the relationship

Traditional gender views - in women doing the cleaning but then a switch because you are completely dependent on him for a shelter