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Am I meant to just ask her out? I don't know how this works

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    Back in school we were sort of friends, I liked her and I think she liked me but we were both too shy to do anything about it. 2 years ago we went to uni and have only spoken a couple of times since then.
    We started talking again a few days ago when she messaged me happy birthday and now I want to make something happen. Do I just say "would you like to go out for a drink some time" or something? I've had a relationship before but it just sort of happened naturally, and same with friends I have in relationships it always seems like they were just friends hanging out and then after a while ended up together. Straight up asking like that seems awkward, but I'm not sure

    Thanks for any advice

    Just do it fam. Believe it. What harm could it do?

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Do I just say "would you like to go out for a drink some time" or something?
    Pretty much, although I'd frame it a little more casually/firmly e.g. "it's good to hear from you after all this time, we should catch up sometime over [coffee/a beer] or something "

    He who hesitates mastrubates

    My advice is to do it mid conversation. And instead of saying sometime, maybe say something like this week as it will show her that you've got your sh*t together. Good luck

    "It's been good getting back in touch, we should catch up properly over a coffee".
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