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Am I not weird for not being interested in threesomes?

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Why bother with a post grad? Are they even worth it? Have your say! 26-10-2016
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    ALL the guys I know really want to do threesomes with 2 girls. They think it's the sexiest thing ever and can't wait to do it.

    And yet, I'm not into it - at ll. I wanna focus and pleasure one girl and I want to have a connection with her to feel comfortable enough to have sex with (sorry if this is too cheesy). It's unlikely that that will ever happen with 2 girls at once.

    Is that weird? I don't know anyone else who feels the same and tbh even if he did, he wouldn't speak up ('cos other guys would call you gay or w/e).

    Trust me, you will enjoy it. Give it a try.

    I lost my virginity in a threesome with 2 girls.

    Makes a great story, but to be honest, well....... meh. 99% of the blokes who want to have threesomes have never actually had a threesome, and forget to think about all the bumps, knocks and downright awkward Twister-esque contortions that one has to try and achieve, which takes away from the whole thing. They've probably just watched it on the internet and forgotten that these porn actors have someone on the other side of the room behind two cameramen and a sound recordist, giving them directions every few seconds.

    Everyone's different, you're certainly not weird for not being bothered by it.

    And if someone calls you gay for "wanting to have a connection with a girl", then they're probably just hiding their own insecurities.

    Each to their own

    It's not weird, it's just what you're into sexually.

    It doesn't even make sense that you'd be called gay for not having a threesome anyway.

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