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Why bother with a post grad? Are they even worth it? Have your say! 26-10-2016
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    A girl I met once at a house party mentioned she was back in town this weekend...I don't really know her but thought to shoot her a message and ask if she wanted to go for a drink. She said yes.

    The plan was to go to a local bar in town but on the night (Friday) she invited me over to her place instead. It was a good night, we sat and chatted for a few hours, had a laugh, few drinks and stuck a few movies on. At the end it was quite late and she said instead of walking back at home I could just sleep on the sofa, so I did just that.

    I dont think I'm completely clueless but I've never done anything like this before. I was in a long term relationship until eight months ago. I didn't really get any vibes she was interested other than her inviting me over, it being a fun night and her offering to stay (and she did make it clear I was going on the sofa). In all honesty she was a cool girl so I wouldn't mind getting to know her better anyway rather than just a fling, but I feel like either I missed something, did something wrong or there was nothing there to begin with. We've chatted briefly since, she stopped responding but has liked stuff on Facebook.


    She was being nice and offered you a place to sleep for the night. It would have been wrong of you to try and make a move on her in that situation. You'd probably end up sleeping on the streets.

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I wouldn't mind getting to know her better anyway rather than just a fling .. she stopped responding .. Thoughts?
    Probably reflects well on you, but she wanted a red blooded male. Next time, smash on it :yy:

    Crazy. I can't imagine how you didn't do the secks.

    She invited you over. Her intentions were clear
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