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    I've been with my boyfriend for little over a year,we're both in our early twenties & we work at the same place and spend a lot of time with each other (but don't live together). A week ago I went to visit my parents in another city for a week and the night I came back he was acting extra nice and I just assumed he missed me a lot. Skip forward to later that night where he got a little drunk, he asked me whether or not I would consider marrying him. He then continued to confess that while I was away a girl had come into our workplace and asked him if she could go home with him. He had told her to wait for him outside and was ready to take her to MY house and sleep with her. But then decided that he would feel too guilty so he blew her off. I can't help but feel betrayed, I know he didn't physically cheat on me, but I just feel like he was being super nice and had asked me to marry him because of his guilt. I don't think I can trust him right now, It even hurts me to think of that night and what was going on in his mind. So what would you do? Would you talk to him and tell him how you feel? Or would break up with him?

    I think you need to talk to him. I would be tempted to break up though. But yes, talk to him.

    Giv him ur pusi pls

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    asked me whether or not I would consider marrying him. He then continued to confess .. He .. was ready to take her to MY house and sleep with her
    Last of the true romantics :dancing:

    I don't think I can trust him right now
    Correct assessment

    what would you do?
    Personally I wouldn't even date, let alone enter into/remain in a relationship with, such a character, NGL
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