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I am a fake person and I did not even realise until now

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    I have been wondering why people hate me and YES people do hate me - but I am no longer going to moan and groan and deal with it head on.

    The last person I pissed off said I was a complete fake and I now see why and where I went completely wrong. She told me that she had a white boyfriend and she is Asian. At the time I did not think much until a few days ago when their mother asked me what my thoughts were about her daughter dating and potentially marrying this white boyfriend. I said it was completely wrong and told her to steer clear. I don't know why I said it - maybe because I could not help see the mother cry.

    I know see that I have cocked up BIG time and I may have done things like this in the past without realising it. It wasn't intentional.

    I don't know how to apologize to this girl and also how to stop being so fake

    Say the same thing you've said here, what you feel in your heart. Some people go through their whole lives without realizing their mistakes. If they are a nice person, they'll forgive you. It'd be a cold world if we didn't embrace change in people, and only saw people for their past.

    Try mindfulness exercises, look it up online. It'll make you more aware of your thought process and how to be a more positive person.
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