Okay, I was here pretty much a year ago stressed about my eldest leaving and going to Aston. Well, she made it through her first year....did well in her exams....kept herself to herself though, with little interaction with anyone aside from the general hi and whatnot in her flat but that was fine....not pushed her to do more, as felt it do more harm than good. We are quite local, so she's been home every weekend. She's enjoyed her summer at home, and seems okay about coming back BUT here I am again stressed about her ! Not really her going back now but her placement year. I am so worried about her not getting anything! She has a disability which will make it trickier, and this, coupled with her shyness....just so worried she will not get anything decent. She has a great brain but lack of self confidence....driving me nuts just now!