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So Conflicted. Should I Try To Rekindle Or Is It Pointless?

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    So I was seeing this girl and everything was great. She got upset over something and kind of ended things. A week later she apologized via email (I was out of the country). I replied back saying it was fine and that I had just landed. She didn’t acknowledge my response back to her email and didn’t say anything for 4 days. In those 4 days I saw that she was online and even in my city (we live about 1.5 hrs away) but still didn’t say anything. Finally, at 1 AM after 4 days she calls me. I was asleep but I woke up the next day and saw that she sent me a text. It said, “Hey glad you made it back. It’s been a busy week. I’m in your city and would love to see you”. I had to work so I couldn’t so she just said “Ok cool”.

    Anyways, after that we didn’t speak for weeks. This past Sunday I saw her on Snapchat (social media) and she was in this BMW and I heard her say “When she finally lets you drive his M4” but you never see him. The next day I get a text from her saying “Hey I’m headed home. I dropped some things off at your front door.”

    I saw the text a few hours later and said, “Ok cool thanks”. I sent another text saying “My roommate just told me” Then another one saying “I’m in *insert her city*”.

    “Ok Cool Thanks”
    …..
    …..
    …..
    “My roommate just told me”
    “I’m in *insert her city”

    She replied back, “No problem…Oh ok cool”.

    I get back home. She has a note that says, “Hope all is well. It’s been a while. Ran into your roommate this weekend and heard that you’re moving soon. I was just concerned so I got you a few pick me ups. Could be wrong and if I am just take it as a housewarming and pay it forward ” . With the note was a bag had a few of some small inside jokes kind of gifts.
    Nothing flashy.

    1.Is she just being friendly?
    2.Is that snap of her obviously driving another man’s car something I should factor in my decision to say something to her?
    3. I look at her snapchat fairly regularly (at least once a week) you can say (On Snapchat it shows you who has viewed your post). She doesn’t look at mine though. It is bad that I look at hers?
    4. Should I say anything to her about the bag or should I just leave it alone since I already said Thank you before I saw the bag? Is it really worth saying anything is what I’m really trying to ask
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    Sounds like she's just being friendly. If you want to know her feelings for you then it would be best to ask her directly, otherwise you risk overanalysing everything she says or does. Hope that helps.
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    (Original post by Mistiene)
    Sounds like she's just being friendly. If you want to know her feelings for you then it would be best to ask her directly, otherwise you risk overanalysing everything she says or does. Hope that helps.
    Thanks.

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