So I was seeing this girl and everything was great. She got upset over something and kind of ended things. A week later she apologized via email (I was out of the country). I replied back saying it was fine and that I had just landed. She didn’t acknowledge my response back to her email and didn’t say anything for 4 days. In those 4 days I saw that she was online and even in my city (we live about 1.5 hrs away) but still didn’t say anything. Finally, at 1 AM after 4 days she calls me. I was asleep but I woke up the next day and saw that she sent me a text. It said, “Hey glad you made it back. It’s been a busy week. I’m in your city and would love to see you”. I had to work so I couldn’t so she just said “Ok cool”.
Anyways, after that we didn’t speak for weeks. This past Sunday I saw her on Snapchat (social media) and she was in this BMW and I heard her say “When she finally lets you drive his M4” but you never see him. The next day I get a text from her saying “Hey I’m headed home. I dropped some things off at your front door.”
I saw the text a few hours later and said, “Ok cool thanks”. I sent another text saying “My roommate just told me” Then another one saying “I’m in *insert her city*”.
“Ok Cool Thanks”
“My roommate just told me”
“I’m in *insert her city”
She replied back, “No problem…Oh ok cool”.
I get back home. She has a note that says, “Hope all is well. It’s been a while. Ran into your roommate this weekend and heard that you’re moving soon. I was just concerned so I got you a few pick me ups. Could be wrong and if I am just take it as a housewarming and pay it forward ” . With the note was a bag had a few of some small inside jokes kind of gifts.
1.Is she just being friendly?
2.Is that snap of her obviously driving another man’s car something I should factor in my decision to say something to her?
3. I look at her snapchat fairly regularly (at least once a week) you can say (On Snapchat it shows you who has viewed your post). She doesn’t look at mine though. It is bad that I look at hers?
4. Should I say anything to her about the bag or should I just leave it alone since I already said Thank you before I saw the bag? Is it really worth saying anything is what I’m really trying to ask
So Conflicted. Should I Try To Rekindle Or Is It Pointless?
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