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I like a girl online.

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    I am a girl, she's a girl.. you get the idea.
    Anyway, I'm 90% sure she's into girls too and we've been talking via text for a couple of weeks and I really like her. She lives about 5 or 6 hours away and so visiting her isn't impossibly and I'm actually planning on applying to the university she is in.

    I just don't know what to do when it comes to liking her, she already said she wants me to visit and come see the university and stuff; but that is all platonic. I could tell her I like her but that would ruin the friendship I have with her right now and I really don't want that.

    I get butterflies just from talking to her and she makes me smile. I don't want to lose that; I have a hard enough time with people and relationships as it is (Borderline Personality Disorder) and I feel like I've finally found someone who knows about my mental health and my personality and hasn't ran away. She's honestly really great and I wonder if it's better just keeping my mouth shut and enjoying her friendship or if I should say something and possibly ruin the friendship?

    For starters, confirm she's actually a lesbian or bisexual
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