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    So i started University on the 26th of September and the first day i thought went okay as i spoke to people and had a good time but it is now the second week and i've not made a single friend. I live at home and travel to University so i didn't really have any of the homesick issues (thank god) but i am having a college sick phase atm because i'm missing college so much due to the fact that i'm so lonely here.

    I'll admit, i am fairly quiet but that kind of disappeared in second year of college where i made so many friends and had the best time and in school i had a big group of friends but now that i'm in University with no friends, i'm actually feeling so depressed.

    I try to make friends with people but i just never click with them or they already have their group of friends so i don't know how to ask if i can join in without sounding like a loser. It just feels like everyone has made their friends and are having a good time and then theres me, I'm having the worst time and have NO friends. It makes my long breaks in between lectures so depressing, i come home only to cry every day.

    Has anyone else felt like this or is feeling like this? i really need advice

    @page { margin: 2cm } p { margin-bottom: 0.25cm; line-height: 120% } I had the same problem last year. I started uni and lived at home but unfortunately I had very low confidence back then. However, later that year I started a new job and met a bunch of people who I didn’t know, but some were in my year at sixth form. A job is different to college/uni because you are joining a team. That gave me the help I needed make a group of friends and build my confidence. This year I'm happy with my confidence, started drinking/clubbing with friends etc. Just went back to uni but haven’t made any friends yet. I feel like I wasn’t ready to join uni last year and that has kinda ruined it for me. That’s why I’ve decided to transfer to a different uni.
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