So theres a guy at work and we both started a kind of relationship. We're both managers but he has a small power over me so he makes final decisions at work and allocates me where to go. There are 2 places I can be, either with him in the office, or at the shop which is 15 minutes away. Once youre at the office, youre there the whole day and if I'm at the shop I'm there the whole day, however he always has to be in the office. So whenever I can I try to be with him at the office but he send me to the shop sometimes for like a week straight even though its not completely necessary, I could stay at the office. I obviously then miss him and he says he missed me too but I feel like he's just lying, if he did he wouldnt send me to the shop. And I'm 100% positive I don't NEED to be at the shop, not for that many consecutive days anyway. So I get that he's clearly not into this "relationship" thing as much as I am.
We started out as FWB but I very quickly gained feelings for him and he has said to me that he likes me and he even buys me things quite often which makes me feel like he does genuinely have feelings for me. But then other times like how I've described above I feel like he's not interested at all and is just there for the sex, which tbh I'm fine with because thats the reason we started our FWB thing.
But my main question is how do I not care for him and not have feelings for him so that I don't get hurt when he sends me to the shop? I feel rubbish at the end of the day when he send me there. And also, what does it sound like to you guys? Is he just wanting FWB?
How to stop caring for him when I feel he doesn't care as much for me
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