I wanted to make a thread where guys could talk about sexual harassment they'd experienced without being judged or being told they should be grateful and enjoy it (any such comments will be immediately reported).
Feel free to share stories, experiences and how it effected you.
I've had multiple incidents, but the one that sticks in my mind the most is in a nightclub. A girl stole the hat I was wearing, swung it around and hid it behind her back. When I reached to get it back (so had my arm essentially around her) she grabbed the back of my head, forced me against the wall and stuck her tongue down my throat.
Due to shock as much as anything I didn't push her off immediately, and she took this to mean, even when I had pushed her off, that I really wanted it and kept trying. I gave up on ever keeping my hat and left the club not long after.
Was in a relationship at the time and I don't think my gf fully believed me when I told her. I mean guys don't get sexually assaulted right? I must have had something to do with it. Not sure she ever quite trusted me as much after.
So what incidents have you guys had? What effect did they have on you? Do you feel more should be done to bring such incidents to light and stop the culture that guys should are thirsty and should be grateful for any action they can get?