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20 years old and virgin

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Why bother with a post grad? Are they even worth it? Have your say! 26-10-2016
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    okay so, i never really cared about it before but recently i'm so ashamed about being a virgin. like i have been in situations where i could of lost it but it never felt that special idk.

    i had a boyfriend who i cared about a lot last year and i was 100% confident i was gonna lose it then but the relationship ended and we never got the chance :/ - he didn't wanna take it from me.

    i now that i'm 20 every guy i date just assumes i'm not a virgin ugh. i've been talking to this guy recently and i really like him.. the problem, is how do i tell him? he knows i've had a past relationship so it's probably not even crossed his mind. on top of this, i'm always scared of getting hurt.. with this guy especially everyone says you never end up serious with your first but i really like him :/

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    All I can say is, those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind I'm kind of in the same boat since I'm 18 and a virgin, only difference is I'm not ashamed of it, it's nothing to be ashamed of I feel. Actually, contrary to your situation, all the guys I've told seem either to not really care all that much or find it 'kinda hot' (so they've said, although I find that a tad creepy :/) so you really don't have anything to worry about. There'll be plenty of opportunities, and honestly there's no rush lol we're still both super young. If you wanna get sexual with this guy but don't want to give it up just yet, just give him head lol that's what I do and seems to have worked fine.

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