I've never felt lonelier then how I feel rn. I'm 19 and I feel as if everyone's moving on with their lives and I'm just stuck in the same rut . I drifted away from my secondary school mates but I have 2 best friends from sixth form (I also have other acquaintance type mates but we're not that close).
I've just started my first year of uni but I stupidly listened to my mum who said that I would save loads of money living at home so I commute to uni. It was literally the worst decision of my life. I havent met any 'friends' because they all go back to their flats and I catch the bus home. Even with societies, they rarely meet up so I haven't met many people their either.
One of my best friends has found herself a boyfriend and she literally spends all her time talking about him and my other best mate moved away from home and after visiting her, I'm so envious because she is literally having the time of her life.
My first year is a general year so there's over 450 people in lectures. The people on my course are polite but that's all. We talk and then they go back to their flats and I go home. They're all really tight with their flatmates.
I've never felt lonelier then how I feel rn. I'm 19 and I feel as if everyone's moving on with their lives and I'm just stuck in the same rut . I drifted away from my secondary school mates but I have 2 best friends from sixth form (I also have other acquaintance type mates but we're not that close).
I've just started my first year of uni but I stupidly listened to my mum who said that I would save loads of money living at home so I commute to uni. It was literally the worst decision of my life. I havent met any 'friends' because they all go back to their flats and I catch the bus home. Even with societies, they rarely meet up so I haven't met many people their either.
One of my best friends has found herself a boyfriend and she literally spends all her time talking about him and my other best mate moved away from home and after visiting her, I'm so envious because she is literally having the time of her life.
I just feel so down and alone
Will , here is my advice but I dont know if it will help Dont make anyone decide what you will do in your life except yourself , be yourself and dont change for anyone , set your own goals and try to achieve them .. Wake up everyday and say today is gonna be fantastic just having this idea may help to have a good day .Do not wait anybody to spent time with you , struggle and work hard , then people will fight to hear a word from you Hope you all the best
I've never felt lonelier then how I feel rn. I'm 19 and I feel as if everyone's moving on with their lives and I'm just stuck in the same rut . I drifted away from my secondary school mates but I have 2 best friends from sixth form (I also have other acquaintance type mates but we're not that close).
I've just started my first year of uni but I stupidly listened to my mum who said that I would save loads of money living at home so I commute to uni. It was literally the worst decision of my life. I havent met any 'friends' because they all go back to their flats and I catch the bus home. Even with societies, they rarely meet up so I haven't met many people their either.
One of my best friends has found herself a boyfriend and she literally spends all her time talking about him and my other best mate moved away from home and after visiting her, I'm so envious because she is literally having the time of her life.
I just feel so down and alone
Make as big an effort as possible to make friends on your course and also you could consider and look in to moving in to a house-share with people on your course or an advertised house-share for the next year or two. It's not the end of the world!