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Need help verifying a girl I had sex with didn't become pregnant.

So basically I had sex with this girl a few years ago, it was with a condom, but I want to make sure she didn't become pregnant and that I do not have a child from her.
I cut ties with her after we had sex.
My nightmare is that I have a child without my knowledge.
Now I found her facebook.
Can someone help me by asking her because I don't want to ask her.

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Original post by Tsunami92
So basically I had sex with this girl a few years ago, it was with a condom, but I want to make sure she didn't become pregnant and that I do not have a child from her.
I cut ties with her after we had sex.
My nightmare is that I have a child without my knowledge.
Now I found her facebook.
Can someone help me by asking her because I don't want to ask her.


Dude, you overthink. :toofunny:
Reply 2
Original post by ||TheUnknown||
Dude, you overthink. :toofunny:


You have no idea how much it scares me.
Just ask one of her mates on fb. U could say u heard she had a baby and just ask if its true because u knew her from ur previous life etc etc. Just make it up and see what happens.
Original post by Tsunami92
You have no idea how much it scares me.


Wait, did you see on her FB that she now has a child?
Reply 5
Original post by ||TheUnknown||
Wait, did you see on her FB that she now has a child?


No.
But maybe she gave him away to adoption.
Or aborted.
Or she is hiding him and not showing him on photos.
Or a million scenarios are running through my head.
Reply 6
You cut ties once you had sex- sound like an ********


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Reply 7
Doubt you have a child- you are just immature


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Original post by Tsunami92
No.
But maybe she gave him away to adoption.
Or aborted.
Or she is hiding him and not showing him on photos.
Or a million scenarios are running through my head.


Yep, you're definitely overthinking.
Reply 9
Original post by ||TheUnknown||
Yep, you're definitely overthinking.


Maybe the condom raptured or something.
A million things could have happened.
Even if there is a 0.000000001 % chance I want to be absolutely sure I don't have a child from her.
Reply 10
This isn't the 1920's if she's had a kid she's not hiding it away, you would know.


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Reply 11
Original post by Tsunami92
Maybe the condom raptured or something.
A million things could have happened.
Even if there is a 0.000000001 % chance I want to be absolutely sure I don't have a child from her.


http://www.bps.org.uk/psychology-public/find-psychologist/find-psychologist
You need one.
Reply 12
Original post by lele93
This isn't the 1920's if she's had a kid she's not hiding it away, you would know.


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I want to be a million % sure I don't have a child.
If you used a condom, I really wouldn't worry, the odds are tiny that she got pregnant. And if you're not talking to her anymore, you don't really have the right to start asking whether she had an abortion; it will look very strange if you do.
Original post by Tsunami92
Maybe the condom raptured or something.
A million things could have happened.
Even if there is a 0.000000001 % chance I want to be absolutely sure I don't have a child from her.


I think you subconsciously just want to get back in touch with her. :hubba:
Just hit her up and ask how are things and if she dosn't respond or responds with sass you know that she dosnt have your child. If she did she would open uip stragiht with hey have you met your son yet. Its not that hard bro
Original post by Tsunami92
So basically I had sex with this girl a few years ago, it was with a condom, but I want to make sure she didn't become pregnant and that I do not have a child from her.
I cut ties with her after we had sex.
My nightmare is that I have a child without my knowledge.
Now I found her facebook.
Can someone help me by asking her because I don't want to ask her.


You're definitely overthinking this. You can't bring this up years later when there is no sign or anything that she has or may have had a kid. You need to work on things your end and move on from this rather than actually asking her
Reply 17
Original post by lele93
This isn't the 1920's if she's had a kid she's not hiding it away, you would know.


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Because after the sex I blocked her on my phone and maybe she couldn't reach me all this time.
Reply 18
if she had a child youd know. gossip spreads so quickly now a days so youd know. trust.
Reply 19
Original post by PandaSenpai
Just hit her up and ask how are things and if she dosn't respond or responds with sass you know that she dosnt have your child. If she did she would open uip stragiht with hey have you met your son yet. Its not that hard bro


Yeah but I feel awkward about asking her :
"hey do you remember we had sex a few years ago and then I blocked you afterwards.
Did you happen to get pregnant?."

I rather just a random person ask her :
Hey do you have or ever had children, or were ever pregnant?.

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