So basically I had sex with this girl a few years ago, it was with a condom, but I want to make sure she didn't become pregnant and that I do not have a child from her. I cut ties with her after we had sex. My nightmare is that I have a child without my knowledge. Now I found her facebook. Can someone help me by asking her because I don't want to ask her.
So basically I had sex with this girl a few years ago, it was with a condom, but I want to make sure she didn't become pregnant and that I do not have a child from her. I cut ties with her after we had sex. My nightmare is that I have a child without my knowledge. Now I found her facebook. Can someone help me by asking her because I don't want to ask her.
Just ask one of her mates on fb. U could say u heard she had a baby and just ask if its true because u knew her from ur previous life etc etc. Just make it up and see what happens.
Wait, did you see on her FB that she now has a child?
No. But maybe she gave him away to adoption. Or aborted. Or she is hiding him and not showing him on photos. Or a million scenarios are running through my head.
No. But maybe she gave him away to adoption. Or aborted. Or she is hiding him and not showing him on photos. Or a million scenarios are running through my head.
Maybe the condom raptured or something. A million things could have happened. Even if there is a 0.000000001 % chance I want to be absolutely sure I don't have a child from her.
Maybe the condom raptured or something. A million things could have happened. Even if there is a 0.000000001 % chance I want to be absolutely sure I don't have a child from her.
If you used a condom, I really wouldn't worry, the odds are tiny that she got pregnant. And if you're not talking to her anymore, you don't really have the right to start asking whether she had an abortion; it will look very strange if you do.
Maybe the condom raptured or something. A million things could have happened. Even if there is a 0.000000001 % chance I want to be absolutely sure I don't have a child from her.
I think you subconsciously just want to get back in touch with her.
Just hit her up and ask how are things and if she dosn't respond or responds with sass you know that she dosnt have your child. If she did she would open uip stragiht with hey have you met your son yet. Its not that hard bro
So basically I had sex with this girl a few years ago, it was with a condom, but I want to make sure she didn't become pregnant and that I do not have a child from her. I cut ties with her after we had sex. My nightmare is that I have a child without my knowledge. Now I found her facebook. Can someone help me by asking her because I don't want to ask her.
You're definitely overthinking this. You can't bring this up years later when there is no sign or anything that she has or may have had a kid. You need to work on things your end and move on from this rather than actually asking her
Just hit her up and ask how are things and if she dosn't respond or responds with sass you know that she dosnt have your child. If she did she would open uip stragiht with hey have you met your son yet. Its not that hard bro
Yeah but I feel awkward about asking her : "hey do you remember we had sex a few years ago and then I blocked you afterwards. Did you happen to get pregnant?."
I rather just a random person ask her : Hey do you have or ever had children, or were ever pregnant?.