Second year and thinking about dropping out...

Should I stay or should I go?

I am a second year computer science student, I really disliked my course last year but thought I was just disliking one module (maths) so I kept at it knowing I wouldn't have to do that module next year, I then spent all summer not thinking about uni, I'd passed and gotten into my second year and I just completely didn't think about how much I disliked first year as I was just happy I'd made it to second year and thought it would get better. This year I seem to be just hating every module and with that it's REALLY hard. I'm struggling with all my coursework and do not think that I can get a 2:1 at the end of the three years. Which worries me because then I'd feel like I'd wasted three years and a huge amount of money. My coursework is hard, I spend pretty much ALL of my free time/evenings/weekends trying to do it and am finding myself getting no where. But because I also don't enjoy it i find myself being miserable doing the work. With no real motivation to seek help... I just spend hours attempting on my own Along with this I'm very lonely, I commute to uni and have made no friends there making my time tougher. I don't really have any desire to work in this field anymore either.. I've been looking at apprenticeships but still have no idea what it is I want to do but because I'm not enjoying it anything seems better than uni right now (and earning money sounds great!!) I want a degree and a really good career in the hopes of going abroad or even immigrating in the future but I don't know if a degree will help me? That's pretty much the only reason I'm staying (and not wanting to disappoint family) I wouldn't want to change courses... I have no desire in going through another first year of a different course so I know that's not for me. I have looked into open university but I'm not sure on how it really works, and if my credits from first year will transfer. What do you recommend please help!

You can transfer credits to the Open University.
However, your credits are in Computer Science. This would mean that you can continue studying for a CS degree with them - and it doesn't sound like you want to. Your other option would be to do an Open Degree, which is where you can choose modules from any subjects you want. The problem with this is that many higher level modules require you to have studied specific lower level modules, so you will find that you either have a limited choice of what you can do or you need to take Level 1 modules even though you've already passed that stage.
The OU is also studying from home by distance learning. Some people struggle with this, as you don't get as much contact with other students. There are tutorials, but these tend to be every month or so, and not everyone attends. There are also OU forums, and you can email your tutor for help. You don't get a maintenance loan for OU study so most people get a part time job.

I know you've said you don't want to do another first year in a different subject, but you wouldn't be able to get finance for this. You've used up 2 years of student finance, which means that if you do return in the future you would have to fund the first year yourself. You would get funding for subsequent years, though.

Thank you for your response! I am somewhat interested in changing to OU and transferring my credits, OU seems to have a larger choice of modules with some that I do think would fit me better. I'm just abit unsure on the process of it all. I understand its learning from a distance (which I love the sound of... I dont actually speak to any students or any tutors/lecturers at my uni, so I'm not worried about like 1 to 1 or contact time) I am just unsure on how the years schedule is, if you have to attend the meets they hold (if so where are they), Where do i have exams, what modules do i have exams in etc. and im not sure on where I can find this information out.

You can transfer credits to the Open University.
However, your credits are in Computer Science. This would mean that you can continue studying for a CS degree with them - and it doesn't sound like you want to. Your other option would be to do an Open Degree, which is where you can choose modules from any subjects you want. The problem with this is that many higher level modules require you to have studied specific lower level modules, so you will find that you either have a limited choice of what you can do or you need to take Level 1 modules even though you've already passed that stage.
The OU is also studying from home by distance learning. Some people struggle with this, as you don't get as much contact with other students. There are tutorials, but these tend to be every month or so, and not everyone attends. There are also OU forums, and you can email your tutor for help. You don't get a maintenance loan for OU study so most people get a part time job.

I know you've said you don't want to do another first year in a different subject, but you wouldn't be able to get finance for this. You've used up 2 years of student finance, which means that if you do return in the future you would have to fund the first year yourself. You would get funding for subsequent years, though.