What do I do to be in a likelier place to attract both academic and attractive girls?

I don't feel valuable enough a human to have the life with others I dream of.

I don't feel intelligent/capable enough to do as well as I want to do academically, nor do I feel naturally attractive enough.

And, currently, I am hardly my best. My education level or level of qualifications isn't too great right now, and I am a bit fat.

I'm uneducated, I'm fat, I'm clearly ****ing not desirable or alpha enough for what I want and I do have control over this. I can change that, should I study hard and go to the gym often.

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I feel a massive amount on doing as well as I want to academically and on developing a fitter, leaner, slimmer and overall more attractive body. I don't want to be in a humiliating sort of a situation work-wise, which is another matter to this matter I have made this thread for. The matter I have made this thread for is on how I want a strong and rich social and sex life with nice girls. I want to be around, not feel insecure around and indeed be a more valuable person for somewhat intelligent or interesting, but by and large somewhat academic, and attractive people, so by that I mean women, who are of these qualities.

I search on social media for academically succeeding or better brought up and attractive girls. I've come to understand that this is not so much about 'intelligence' as it is about those who are rather academic. I want to be around academic and/or attractive people, men and women.

How do I penetrate myself more amongst and, lmao, I guess inside of the more academic and more attractive women of this world? Seriously, well, what, this personal feeling does greatly bug me and I am fine with openly sharing it. It means an awesomely great deal to me. A lot of my happiness would come from this.

I am totally right to think my only answers for this desire are to work hard on my education and on my body in the gym?

I feel a massive amount on doing as well as I want to academically and on developing a fitter, leaner, slimmer and overall more attractive body. I don't want to be in a humiliating sort of a situation work-wise, which is another matter to this matter I have made this thread for. The matter I have made this thread for is on how I want a strong and rich social and sex life with nice girls. I want to be around, not feel insecure around and indeed be a more valuable person for somewhat intelligent or interesting, but by and large somewhat academic, and attractive people, so by that I mean women, who are of these qualities.

I search on social media for academically succeeding or better brought up and attractive girls. I've come to understand that this is not so much about 'intelligence' as it is about those who are rather academic. I want to be around academic and/or attractive people, men and women.

How do I penetrate myself more amongst and, lmao, I guess inside of the more academic and more attractive women of this world? Seriously, well, what, this personal feeling does greatly bug me and I am fine with openly sharing it. It means an awesomely great deal to me. A lot of my happiness would come from this.

I am totally right to think my only answers for this desire are to work hard on my education and on my body in the gym?

I'm not "nothing similar", lol.

That exact thinking and its associated inferior complexes of being 'nothing similar' is what has been ruining me, should not by any means be supported by anyone about anyone, and is, literally, wrong anyhow. You've said I am "nothing similar" based on my self-deprecating words and not through knowing me, lol.

I am not the most educated currently, having stooped low over the past two years due to a particular mental state I've been in, but I am picking myself up now and am building upon that, by currently working to get to great universities through an Access course. I also go to the gym regularly. I've gone from 74.5kg to 62kg in about a bit over a year. I do look visibly slimmer nowadays. I have goals within the gym.

I need to work on and am manifestly about my education and on my physical fitness. I'm well aware of and I care pretty much solely about these two aspects to life.

In terms of what is bugging me (to make it clear, the feeling that not my level of education but my intelligence, and also not my soon-to-be fit body but my natural looks or face, so things which are genetic, that I cannot improve upon much, will limit me from having the sort of life I wish for), well, I am told I am actually rather naturally good looking, a 7.5/10, and I'm not stupid. I am not awesomely bright, but both I and others who are definitely significantly more intelligent than I am and who understand the system of education better than I do, such as my old head of sixth form, believe I am capable of getting into a good university. I had offers from Manchester and Nottingham having not worked much on the AS' which got me those offers over two years ago. Now I am working I suppose fairly hard.

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I might've not made it clear but, people, this is HARDLY about wealth either.

Sure, wealth can lead to, say, debauchery and general privileged sex.

I care about being quite a man, improving, knowing more, having firmly made something notable of myself in education.

I would agree with that last theme you're getting at, on creating genuine interests and work (study) purposes.

I don't want to be 'rich'. I want to be really quite highly educated and to have a fit body.

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Is it unrealistic to want a 7/10 girl who goes to a Russell Group university?

Like, surely if I am a success in education which is entirely down to what I do with my life and its time and if I look as good as I can look I will not be lonely, and I would probably have the company of pleasant female friends?

These two aspects to life are all I think about, because I am obsessed by an idealistic sort of a situation I want with other people

Changing your entire attitude and mindset would be a start, you come across very poorly.

How can you realistically set expectations for what potential partners have to be when you acknowledge you're nothing similar?

Simply, I am extremely lonely, and I want the best for myself. That means doing what needs to be done to get into a satisfying course at a satisfying university, generally learning and attempting to improve, and tending to my fitness. I am desperate and desperately sad over getting myself into a good university, e.g. Manchester, Nottingham, Durham or UCL, four universities I will be applying to in the next month with an Access to HE Diploma in Business Studies.