Please do not de anon this, its quite embarassing for me, delete if you have to.
Im a guy, 19 years of age, horny as hell, i thought it stops at about 18, it clearly didnt with me. I wake up i have a hard on, i walk around in front of my sister with a hard on down my leg, she gets annoyed and says im a horny freak. My last few girl friends said that im too 'tiring' and i always want sex, they want more from the relationship etc, and i just have alot of sexual tension, and need to resort to sex or mastabation sometimes even to tame it for some time, its like a disease. I even stoop to the level of sleeping around with strangers just to keep myself in line, i will kind of go wild if i dont get it at the right time. I am just looking for answers, are there similar people like this? Is it a disease? Is it just a teen thing? What can i do to stop these urges? , i dont really want to have a quick **** or even sleep around when im horny, it feels like crime of the century after i do it, and the guilt is too much for me etc.
cold bucket of ice should do the trick.
lol sorry on a serous note- dont worry, it's pretty normal from what i gather/been told by guy friends. only thing is, just because you've 'got the urge' doesnt mean you have to act on it. I know it'll be hard not to, but you say you feel guilty afterwards, so obviously its just a momentary thing. Save it for someone you care about or at least wont feel guilty with.
Lots of people are the same really - maybe not to the same level though! And it won't automatically just 'go away' once you've passed your teen years... although after a couple of years or so it may calm down a little. I dunno, just think really unsexy thoughts?
No man, im just showing how its ruining my life, my relation with my family etc. I ddint add alot of other stuff as its very crude, its not a nice situation to be in.
And i really dont think mastabation is the answer, i hate the after feeling, and i think it actually makes you more horny as a result as you think a quick **** would do the trick.
Also the thing about me is, i dont know if other guys are like this, but when your in the mood, quite a few things will only be unsexy, only after the feeling you will realise, yukk what did i just do, and who with.
Don't most guy shave a hard on when they weake up? It's something about testosterone levels being high in the mornings. Maybe the guilt is making you think about it more and somehow making you more horny? (sorry maybe this advice isn't best coming from a girl).
Why do you feel so guilty after *******? It's just your body. You get urges for a reason. Deal with them. Billions of people are doing it at any given second without being smitten down by some kind of Godly wrath.
And at least when it's over, you don't have to worry about the "omg what did I do and who with?" Just thank your hand for saving you from diseases, dirty slags, and sisterly teasing.