Please keep anonymous because I know people on here.
Basically my problem is that I still wear nappies at the age of 18. The reason this has happened is because as a child I wasn't toilet-trained and so was still wearing nappies by the time I was 7 or 8 because I kept soiling myself. By the time I learned to use the toilet it was kind of too late because I had got so used to wearing nappies, and I knew nothing else. I have tried every other kind of underwear available, you name it: boxers, y fronts, even a thong, but the thing is i have got so used to wearing nappies anything else is just so uncomfortable.
Now I really think it's got to the point where I need to do something, because I think it is holding me back. I have never even kissed a girl and I'm worried about doing anything more than that incase she thinks it's weird that I still wear nappies. Girls would you find this weird? Please be honest. Please give me any advice you can. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
(Original post by Jillie Boe)
I hope you don't mind me asking, but why did your parents never teach you?
Yea, I am wondering that too........however I do know someone who come from a disturbing home and hasn't been trained basics for everyday living, ie hygiene, controlling bowels and so on. He is now is foster care and being takin right back to basics.
also you say you have tried wearing underwear of all different varieties, howsabout not wearing underwear at all, ive tried that (although i dont do it a lot but would be a better option than nappies) its pretty comfortable and i know a few mates who have done the same. Always worth a go lol.
This problem is not as rare as you might think. I know somebody who suffered the same thing. I suggest the mods do some research into the poster before automatically assuming it is a troll. However in the case I knew of it was purely medical.