How long is the average sex session?

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  1. Sithius's Avatar
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    How long is the average sex session?
    Generally speaking of course.

    Any figures on this?
  2. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: How long is the average sex session?
    anywheer from 15minutes a quickey to 2hrs of teasing, foreplay and sex.
  3. Democracy's Avatar
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    Re: How long is the average sex session?
    However long you want it to be, babe
  4. dave_bob's Avatar
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    Re: How long is the average sex session?
    all night long
  5. rock_ten's Avatar
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    Re: How long is the average sex session?
    how long have you got?
  6. foldingstars's Avatar
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    Re: How long is the average sex session?
    I'd be lucky if my ex lasted 5/10minutes (15 at a push?); with my boyfriend now it can be hours!
  7. yoshifumu's Avatar
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    Re: How long is the average sex session?
    if you wanna have a quickee up against the wall of a night club, your gunna get pretty tired after 15 minutes. id give a quickee only a few minutes.

    you'll find a load of sites about this all over the place.

    From what i've seen, a lot of guys don't seem to break the 5 minute barrier. but to be honest, it all depends on how you do it, and what you do it with.

    you can use condoms to last for hours, or vibrating crap to make you go at first touch.

    Personally, positions, i can't last past 5 minutes in missionary, but i can go for a few hours if i'm anywhere but a bed, say doing doggie on a chair, or just doing something interesting over a table.

    Be inventive, and you'll find what works :P

    important thing is just to have fun and, to give the girl an orgasm. some guys may be able to go for hours, but i think you really accomplished something if you give a girl 8 orgasms in as many minutes.
  8. 蘋果's Avatar
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    Re: How long is the average sex session?
    It really just depends how long you can make it/want it to be.
    But with a condom, its easier to last a lot longer than without.
  9. Anonymous's Avatar
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    wish i could do it quicker sometimes. The last 5 girls I slept with all finnished before me and I actually faked a couple of times (easy to do cus i had a condom on).

    I thought only girls were meant to do that is there something wrong with me?!

    I do it cum but it would normally take like 20 mins at least of good sex.
  10. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: How long is the average sex session?
    wish i could do it quicker sometimes. The last 5 girls I slept with all finnished before me and I actually faked a couple of times (easy to do cus i had a condom on).

    I thought only girls were meant to do that is there something wrong with me?!

    I do it cum but it would normally take like 20 mins at least of good sex.
  11. MichaelG's Avatar
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    Re: How long is the average sex session?
    gotta love the constant sex which i obviously get.
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    Re: How long is the average sex session?
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    wish i could do it quicker sometimes. The last 5 girls I slept with all finnished before me and I actually faked a couple of times (easy to do cus i had a condom on).

    I thought only girls were meant to do that is there something wrong with me?!

    I do it cum but it would normally take like 20 mins at least of good sex.
    What????

    just... just... what????

    Mate, i'm assuming your a guy. but, it's GOOD if girls finish before you.

    to be honest, the point is girls don't finish
    they just get tired.

    they can go for as long as they want. to be able to go for long, yer sure it's a curse sometimes when you just don't have enough time, but dear god, i'm sure you'll find a LOT of people who will be very happy to have good sex for 20 minutes, and a few more who are willing for hours.

    If a girl finishes, don't stop, just go until they tell you to get off.
  13. Kagutsuchi's Avatar
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    Re: How long is the average sex session?
    (Original post by MichaelG)
    gotta love the constant sex which i obviously get.
    :lies:
  14. lil_miss_annoymous's Avatar
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    Re: How long is the average sex session?
    Anywhere between 20 mins - 2hrs lol ( depending who with, Where etc. etc.)
  15. Rebekka's Avatar
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    Re: How long is the average sex session?
    If we're just talking penetration I'd say anywhere from about 5-25 minutes depending on how fast the guy is/how fast you need to be. If we're including foreplay for a proper session I'd say a good couple of hours of build up makes for some hot sex!
  16. yoshifumu's Avatar
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    Re: How long is the average sex session?
    to be honest, i never go beyond a good 10 minutes of foreplay.
  17. Kagutsuchi's Avatar
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    Re: How long is the average sex session?
    (Original post by yoshifumu)
    If a girl finishes, don't stop, just go until they tell you to get off.
    You're clearly an idiot.

    I have a feeling that the women you have sex with never start and you just keep pounding away until she knees you in the balls.
  18. faber niger's Avatar
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    Re: How long is the average sex session?
    (Original post by Sithius)
    Generally speaking of course.

    Any figures on this?
    What do you think we people do? :eek:
  19. cookieman's Avatar
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    Re: How long is the average sex session?
    (Original post by lil_miss_annoymous)
    Anywhere between 20 mins - 2hrs lol ( depending who with, Where etc. etc.)
    sorry u have to prove it

    il be timing tho if its anywhere under 20 mins then I will have to report you to the sex police.

    :woo:
  20. MichaelG's Avatar
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    Re: How long is the average sex session?
    (Original post by Kagutsuchi)
    :lies:
    curses, i've been discovered! smithers, press the accelamatron!
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