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02-11-2008: 2nd November 2008 22:34
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Leeds
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Re: struggling inside
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I been with my bf for nearly 2 years now and things arent going well i guess. I have a lot of problems that i dont think i can discuss with him because i feel like he's ashamed of me because of it. inside it hurts because he has a go at me for stupid things and it breaks me up. i feel like i'm losing him and everything all at the same time. I just wish he understood how hard it is for me to cope with ptsd and his temper tantrums too, i dont know whether its time to go separate ways,
I'd been with my boyfriend around 16 months when we broke up, and it had a lot to do with me having problems (PTSD being the main one) and feeling he had grown a major lack of understanding (and he also had major temper tantrums, which would spark off arguments).
I think I understand how you're feeling... personally, the way me and my boyfriend went (constant arguments and me feeling completely misunderstood), I fell out of love with him.
If you are still in love with him, then I reckon the relationship is probably worth saving. Have you sat down with him and had a really good talk about it? Like, explaining how you feel and how his behaviour effects you and how it can hinder rather than help you? |
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