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my sister's gay friend told me once that it doesn't have to hurt. just use lots of lube and stretch the anus out a bit. and he said when it hits the prostate is feels good.
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I'm a girl and have no idea but I'd assume the pain subsides after a while.... and if this bumps back upto the first page, you may get some actual clued-up answers :smile:
my gay friend says it's only certain posititions which hurt. don't ask me which though!
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anals fine if you go really slowly, concentrate on relaxing and use lube. and it is really pleasurable once you get going.
i am a girl, but i have done it wv my bf and it hurt unless your really wet, but coz your a guy you wont be wet lol, so use lube, and yes it is pleasurable but as long as your okay with the pain... its not ubearable so go ahead try it, i wish u all the luck :smile:
^ girls dont get wet for anal sex?? no one does, u always need lube?
Reply 7
Communication is good - just tell the giver how fast he can go, how deep he go, etc.

As for whether it feels "genuinely pleasurable", well, yeah. Just remember that you're going to have to jump over a few hurdles before you get to the trance-inducing ecstasy :p:
The anus is essential muscle. And if you practise stretching a little then ... well you get the picture ...
Anyway, I shouldn't hurt whatsoever. If done properly, with some lube ...
sokissme18
^ girls dont get wet for anal sex?? no one does, u always need lube?

i know, i mean like using like urself um being wet as a lubricant if you catch my drift sorry if not being clear!!!
lol, i meant that when a girl is aroused you dont need so much artificial lubrication as you produce enough from like your vagina
i am blushing STUPID MUCH
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sokissme18
^ girls dont get wet for anal sex?? no one does, u always need lube?


Unless you've got a touch of the diarrhoea.
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Unless you've got a touch of the diarrhoea.


Thanks for that you've made my early morning. :eek:
Don't worry about it and just go ahead and try.
Be prepared and all the rest of it, you may take a few weeks to be ready.
i did it the first time and it didnt hurt that much, just used lots of lube (im a guy). Make sure you go super slowly the first time, or it will hurt!! and try an oil based lubricant instead of a water based one cus it just is better for that area! :smile: Wish you the best of experiences!
Anonymous
i did it the first time and it didnt hurt that much, just used lots of lube (im a guy). Make sure you go super slowly the first time, or it will hurt!! and try an oil based lubricant instead of a water based one cus it just is better for that area! :smile: Wish you the best of experiences!


But obviously not using an oil-based lubricant with a latex condom... because that's just silly...
This has always confused me as with all the porn ive watched of this, the male recieving normally doesnt have an erect penis. So how can it be enjoyable?
Anonymous
This has always confused me as with all the porn ive watched of this, the male recieving normally doesnt have an erect penis. So how can it be enjoyable?


Not being erect doesn't mean its not enjoyable. Its just the case; not sure of the science behind it. You should try.
Anonymous
This has always confused me as with all the porn ive watched of this, the male recieving normally doesnt have an erect penis. So how can it be enjoyable?


it depends, the pleasure you feel can be induced by the prostate which is a different feeling than if you were the top. it can feel amazing, like your whole body is quaking or it can feel painful. most porn movies the guy is banging away with no tomorrow and the partners comfort level and enjoyment is not really an issue so long as it looks good on camera.
should one use poppers?? or what ever they're called. ive heard that some guys use the solvent to minimise the pain.

btw is it legal and where would you get it from?
It hurts like hell....

I think :ninja:

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