what would u rather be, gay or asexual

Well, I'm a practicing homosexual

Gay, any day of the week. The homophobia is rampant in this topic! So some of you guys would lose ALL sexual feelings in place of being in the minority?

You know it's possible to be both, right?

I know I've already answered (sort of) but I think I'll expand on it. I think it's generally easier to be happy as a homosexual than an asexual, but it depends. If you're gay then there's still a lot of other gay people that might be willing to have a relationship with you. But if you're asexual but still want an intimate relationship without sex, then I think it would be harder to find someone willing to go out with you. Of course you might be an asexual without the desire for intimate relationships in which case that doesn't matter. Or you might be an asexual who doesn't mind having sex, just doesn't particularly want to, in which case there's probably still a fair few people who might go out with you.

You do realise that being ase is even more of a minority?

When you're done calling all the people who chose 'asexual' homosexual, you might want to look at the fact that your very keenness to tell the world how you never look at guys smells a little of latent homosexuality in itself.

As for the original question, I'll choose to avoid dignifying it with an answer. It's too stupid to entertain.

Good point. What I should have said was "targeted minority." You don't often see asexuals getting crap .

Good point. What I should have said was "targeted minority." You don't often see asexuals getting crap .

To be fair, that's because there aren't that many asexuals around let alone ones that are open about it. I think if someone comes out as asexual they'd normally get quite a lot of crap for it. Maybe not as hateful as some people are towards homosexuals, but probably a lot of ignorance and not being taken seriously. Plus there's the fact that there's generally less need to come out as such because you can be in a fulfilling, non-secret relationship without everyone knowing you're ase. That's not really possibly if you're gay.

To be fair, that's because there aren't that many asexuals around let alone ones that are open about it. I think if someone comes out as asexual they'd normally get quite a lot of crap for it. Maybe not as hateful as some people are towards homosexuals, but probably a lot of ignorance and not being taken seriously. Plus there's the fact that there's generally less need to come out as such because you can be in a fulfilling, non-secret relationship without everyone knowing you're ase. That's not really possibly if you're gay.

Yeah, I guess. The point is, I'd pick being gay over having nothing, discrimination or not.

'having nothing'??

Jeez...

Stop stealing my postage!

You are awesomes.