would you like to be friends with someone like this

Drinking to excess before work bad, skipping work bad, spending money on holidays that you don't have bad...a bit of a tit who's trying too hard?

sounds a bit too much effort tbh

i dont mean a dick head, i mean someone who is nice they just have a laugh with their friends and wanna have more fun than those who stay in one club all night, being boring. why dont any of you seem to want a friend who is fun?

someone who always wants to have fun and be impulsive, say book a holiday for the following day, get drunk quite alot, even if theyv got work the next day. some one who on a night out wants to go to loads of different bars and have loads of drinks and be adventurous. someone whos not scared to skive a day off. someone who would find going out at like 11pm cuz ya bored, fun.

So why would they, when making a post where it's obvious they're wondering why they don't have proper friends and are trying to sell themselves in the best light, would they make 90% or the post about going out/getting drunk?
My point is I don't know anything about what they're like the rest of the week when they might 'be like me' because all they think is important to talk about is the fact that they like being drunk (oh, and a bit of spontaneous travelling - also quite unappealing to me btw) and that makes me a bit wary/puts me off a little. Ok?

Actually, judging from your original post, I'd say that you could not have offered a more succinct definition of 'dickhead' if you'd consulted Urban Dictionary.

Why so? I'm pretty shocked at people's interpretation in this thread of this kind of person. What is so wrong with acting on impulse, being spontaneous and trying to have fun?

Because hes trying to hard to be a character on Skins or something. He isnt being spontaneous hes trying to work out the best way for people to think and say "oooh have you met X? He's so much fun, this one time he..."

Not just trying to enjoy life then? You're all so negative on here.

Right, so if you have fun or loosen up, then you're going to end up alcoholic/poor/lonely or all of the above?

and maybe the 'people like him' only want to be around boring people when they have a problem or are upset, because it's the only time that they are on the same wave length as boring people. Fun people might have a bad time every so often, but boring people live a bad time and convince themselves that fun is a silly thing.