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Old 05-04-2009: 5th April 2009 18:16 #1 
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Obsessed about Info on Facebook profile

Let's say that I wanted to overcome my fear of being judged by others by writing EVERYTHING about myself on my Facebook profile. Previously, it used to be empty, with only the information about my university and work.
Nothing about my tastes, music, activities, interests, etc. absolutely nothing.
Then, during these days I got the courage to write somethings... but then a girl I am really attracted to added me as a friend and... aaaaargh... you can't imagine how frustrated I am right now!!! I could literally jump out of the window.

I still have this phobia that people (especially girls) will judge me according to my tastes and the amount of info I write on my profile.

What shall I do?... I didn't accept her even... damn I really feel cornered.

I am asking merely how i can overcome this fear...

ALSO BECAUSE I WANT MY FACEBOOK TO LOOK PROFESSIONAL
but at the same time i want to write about my tastes...
and the info page right now is very long... like 50 lines in each "Favorite" box

will i be considered crazy?
do I have to not care?

Who am I?

Damn you have no idea how f-ing confused I am right now...
I'd really want to jump...

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Old 05-04-2009: 5th April 2009 18:17 #2 
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Don't write anything... be mysterious.
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Add her, she'll like your honesty, and may enjoy reading about you.
 
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Old 05-04-2009: 5th April 2009 18:18 #5 
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Don't worry! You are you so if someone doesn't like it then well that's their problem!
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Delete your facebook.
 
Old 05-04-2009: 5th April 2009 18:19 #7 
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Then delete your information
 
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Accept her. NOW!
 
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You won't stand a chance if you don't accept her - she'll think youre not interested.
 
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When I like someone, I generally twist all the information I gain about them to fit my idea of them anyway
Accept her!
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Don't worry about it! If you look at peoples profiles, you'll see that they will most likely have different interests and tastes to that of their friends, so you can't judge people purely by that and say they're not going to get along or whatever. She shouldn't judge you based on what you've written, some of her friends may have written similar things so don't worry
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Jeez- you are you are- don't hide it. If she strongly objects to you/ your interests then obviously you're not meant to be together, are you? Relax, say what you want.
 
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delete your information. interests and stuff give you something to TALK about
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My housemate goes on the profiles of people she fancies and then adds some of their interests and favourite books/music/TV programs to her profile to make them think they've got things in common with her.

I laughed at her so hard when she told me she did that, she was like "you mean you don't do it?" and I was like "urr... no."
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woah. calm down
 
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Goood I'm gettig a fever...

I really prefer to die in moments like these...
where I don't know what's right and what's wrong... what's better...

f*** me, I'm stupid, stupid, stupid!

my whole world is falling apart

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You sound as obsessive as me xx
 
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whoah do you realy think shes going to bother reading it all
 
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You sound like you need a bit of help, mate.
 
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